I had this friend who got mad at me. Before he got mad, he introduced me to several other people who I got to know. I can't say I was really close to them, but we hung out. Eventually when my friend got mad at me, he made the whole group dislike me by saying things. Has this ever happened to you? He said he got mad at me for saying things that were false, but he turns around and does the same thing, and tries to get everyone not to like me at once. Is this right?
2007-03-05 15:33:15 · 7 answers · asked by perfectlybaked 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
friends don't do friends like that and yes i had friends that did me like that so i just keep to myself and consider my pc as my friend cause it won't let me down or tell lies on me
2007-03-05 15:39:49 · answer #1 · answered by rebelady28379 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's called backbiting and is one of the worlds biggest problems. When someone backbites, they make the person they're backbiting bad in the eyes of others - and that helps spread hate. I have noticed that bad affects of backbiting. For example, it's happened several times that people have backbitten about someone that I didn't know that well, and it made me without realizing hate them! Then I met the person and they turned out to be very nice. I mean I was aware of the the affects of backbiting, but it still affected me... You know what I mean?
What your friend did was wrong... I hope one day, no one backbites!
Hope that helps..
2007-03-05 23:43:30 · answer #2 · answered by Hi, how are ya? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's happened sometimes.
It sounds like he's really immature. When you have problems with a friend, you're not supposed to go off and announce it to all your friends and talk about you in front of them. It's just called courtesy and respect.
When friends ask what's wrong when we have a fight or something, we don't even tell them. They just sense there was a fight and don't go into our problems... because it's just that.... OUR problems.... NOT THEIRS.
Your friend has to respect you. Let him know how you feel... that what he did was out of line and what happens between the 2 of you should STAY between the 2 of you.
2007-03-05 23:39:52 · answer #3 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutely not rite! ur friend is absolutely a coward! talk to him with great patience and ask him why he did this thing?...what for?...if he said that u did the sam thing, ask for a prove! and then...never ever be friend with this kind of person!!! BIG MOUTH for sure!
2007-03-05 23:41:47 · answer #4 · answered by althaea_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it's not right that's terrible poor ,poor you...1 but it's not right just tell him one more time if he doesn't listens to you well he's not a true friend so leave him alone then he'll leave you alone..!
but no this hasn't happen to me!!
but it happen to one of my friends in high school,but it's funny how i still remember ......
but anywayz good luck
:)
2007-03-05 23:41:42 · answer #5 · answered by ~*i'm a lover not a hater*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they werent your friends they were his and only hung out with you because of him sorry to be so harsh but get over it move on
2007-03-05 23:46:09 · answer #6 · answered by kaylaz1978 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been through that. If others are going to believe what he says and not like you for who you are, screw them.
2007-03-05 23:38:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋