My boss was dating this girl for a while and she got pregnant they broke up and went there separate ways afterwords she calls him up saying that she had the baby it was a girl and that she was playing with its so on and so on, all to come to find out after she was mad at him that when the baby was born that it had actually died during birth that the Umbilicord had been wrapped around the neck and did not survive, after a while they got back together and ended up braking up again about three months ago she just started texting him on Sunday saying that she was three months pregnant and that it was his kid. she said that when she first got pregnant that she had twins but one dropped and the other didnt now the second has dropped and she is now three months pregnant. she also said that she and her current boy friend had a peternaty test done and it was his but she doesnt think so (how soon can you test peternaty before the baby is born?) so now my boss doesnt know what he should do HELP!!!
2007-03-05 15:28:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Babies don't drop at 3 months, they're not even a 1/4 inch big. Paternity tests CAN be taken before birth, but doctors don't like to do it because there is risk to the baby. DNA are 99.99% accurate. If she says she doesn't trust the test, she either didn't have it done, or she's setting the boss up for blackmail or just wants to get money out of him.
Tell him to wait until the babies are born, then insist on a paternity test. In the meantime, save everything she sends to him like notes or e mails.
2007-03-05 15:44:44 · answer #1 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hen is a grown man...made his decisions and he has to live with them--why are YOU involved?? That is not a proper boss/worker relationship--sounds fishy to me. He went back to a girl who is manipulative and using horrible stories for attention or revenge--she is dangerous and you should be away far away from all of it. politely ignore the man when he talks about it again. paternity is not your concern, let him go and get the info---this guy sounds nuts and so does his girlfriend--are you getting all this???? It doesn't matter what he does,, what's important is what you do--NOTHING--- MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS. This guy sounds like a possible pervert, looking to excite you....do not fall for it...
2007-03-05 23:36:21 · answer #2 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And you are so enmeshed in your bosses dilema because??? How did he get to be boss, he is believing all this garbage??? Wow, let it get to court and otherwise, got watcha comedy on TV or something without drama.
2007-03-05 23:32:48 · answer #3 · answered by sashali 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your boss to consult an attorney...sounds like he's going to need it.
2007-03-06 00:09:15 · answer #4 · answered by Justlookin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she sounds like a wacko.... tell him just to stay away and when the baby comes then find out and if she actully had one he needs to take over if it is his.
2007-03-05 23:32:45 · answer #5 · answered by SARAH D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he really loves her.. then he would support her no matter whos the babys father is.
:)
2007-03-05 23:31:10 · answer #6 · answered by Victoria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋