Friend Problem?

Question

My friend and I haven't talked for about 17 days and just yesterday morning, she e-mailed me saying "hey, havent talked to you for a long time, hope everything is well" She was being really mean to me on valentines day so I got sick of it. on my bday, she emailed me saying happy bday and i told her "u2" because we have the same bday. That's the last thing I wrote to her. Now, I just got that e-mail and I don't know what to write to her. She is clueless and doesnt think she did anything wrong. Should I e-mail her and what should I say?

Answer 1

She is your friend and if you are her true friend then you gotta be honest with her or this friendship wouldn't last. Remember real friends are the ones who let you know when you're wrong and if you'd want her to change for the better, you'd tell her in a nice way. It's good for u and her.:)

Answer 2

Of course. Dont forget that ppl r not mind readers you have to express how you feel. How about taking her to dinner or some where where you both are relaxed enough to really be yourself. You never know what a person is going through. I have a friend and sometimes it seems as if she doesn't want to talk to me and I say soemthing about it because ppl are not mind readers and she will say funny I felt the same way. So RELAX and talk it over if you two are meant to be friends then it will work out. Sometimes we try to hold on to the very thing we need to let go of including ppl. Think this over hope I helped you in some way.

Answer 3

Well you shouldn't be mad at each other 4ever! You should be happy that she's still talking to you! If you friend feels like nothing ever happend, go with the flow! Ask her out to see a movie in your email. Have Fun and be friends.

Best Wishes,
Victoria

Answer 4

if you want to still be friends with her i would suggest emailing her back. if you immediatley type in your email what was causing the rift it may cause a greater rift in the friendship if you are not careful with your wording. i would probably email her back, get the friendship back to the way it was and then have a talk about what happened. i suggest not using many words that may sound "accusatory" such as "you said/did..." but perhaps "i interpreted.." or "we..."

Answer 5

Sounds like ya all are more than friends. If this person is just a friend it doesn't really sound like they did anything wrong. If they're more than a friend call it what it is so your feelings can be validated, if you can't do that than screw it sianara.

Answer 6

well i think you should at least make some cov. with her. and tell her that she was beening mean to you. by the wayy you don't happen to like her? cause when you don't know what to write back....i think you like her. but i think you should say. ya i kno we haven't been talkking so what's up?

good luck. :)

Answer 7

Get over it, it was 17 days ago, she is trying to move on, why are you stressing about something that happened 2.5 weeks ago?

Answer 8

just tell her that you want to talk to her because you miss her. let her know what you're feeling. just so you know, i know exactly what you're feeling right now. I'm going thru the same thing.

Answer 9

well, it might help that you do tell her but then again, maybe she doesn't want to bring it up and is trying to mend your friendship that way.
its your call, but the easier way would be to just e-mail back and be lyke wutz up?

-Kpop Singer

Answer 10

you need to write her and tell her exactly how you feel. she may not realize she upset you.get it all out in the open.