there is this boy at my school in my grade who never leaves me alone. we are in 8th grade he has called me every day since 7th grade he calls me and when i don't answer he doesn't leave a message, he always talks about me and how good he thinks i look because one of my friends is right next to his locker and always hears him talk about me, and he always stares at me. all my friends says he likes me i agree but i told him i don't like him but won't leave me alone. how do i get rid of him?
2007-03-05 15:22:43 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
lol, ignore him completely like it doesn't bother you. Change your telephone number and if that doesn't work tell him to stop bugging you directly and tell him to get a life. That doesn't work, get your parents and friends to protect you from him!
Hey, you shouldn't even be wasting your time on weirdos like him. he ain't worth it. I used to have some weirdo bugging me. eww.. I just ignored him as if everything he did (yeah, he..) didn't exist at all. it works!
2007-03-05 15:38:14 · answer #1 · answered by <Xariel the Stray> 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HAVE YOU CONSIDERED TALKING TO HIM IN A FRANC WAY ?
I mean just call him to have a short chat with him.
step1: Tell him that you've noticed what you've noticed
step2: Ask him why is he doing all of this (maybe it is only in your mind; it's a possibility you should consider)
step3: If he says he likes you, tell him that the way he acted didn't made you feel comfortable and that you have no similar feelings to him
step4: Make him pay attention to what your really saying (if he does like you, he won't be liking very much what he is hearing)
step5: Tell him that you don't want to hurt is feelings (even if you would; don't know why i thought that you might, you shouldn't anyway btw)
step6: Tell him that even if you don't want to hurt is feelings, because the situation is uncomfortable to you, you don't want to him to talk, think about you and that he should try to stay away from you for a while.
step7: Tell him that you wish he doesn't have any harm feelings towards you as it isn't anyone's fault things are the way they are...
Too complicated to remember when talking to him? practice once in the mirror! ;) go be a good person and take care of the things that trouble you!!!
2007-03-05 15:33:01 · answer #2 · answered by G01an 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you're mean to a guy, that will send a definitive message. No one likes to be embarrassed. So if you're willing to get your hands dirty, as it were, you could be mean and that will probably effectively turn him away. However, with the way things go in school these days, it probably isn't wise, let alone safe- to be mean to anybody. If you ignore him I'm sure he'll give up. I mean, I'm quite a loner myself, but I can only annoy so much, LOL.
2007-03-05 15:27:14 · answer #3 · answered by perfectlybaked 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him it is nice that he likes you but you do not have the same feelings for him. Explain that the things he is saying and doing are not making you happy and you want to be friends but if it continues you will have to stop talking to him all together..
If he still doesn't stop talk to your parents get your dad to answer the phone when he calls and tell him to stop calling..
2007-03-05 15:27:32 · answer #4 · answered by BLONDE BEAUTY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a boyfriend lol or better yet, get a girlfriend! You could tell him to his face that you don't like him in that way but he'll probably not listen or he'll get anygry and decide to hate you. Good luck hon
or maybe your mom or dad could run him off the next time he calls you.
2007-03-05 15:26:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, tell him how it is. Tell him that you are tired of him being a puppy and he needs to start being a sled dog. Which means tell him to stop following you and walk in front of you for once and leave you alone. Tell him nicely that he is getting on your nerves and you want him to stop.
2007-03-05 15:26:05 · answer #6 · answered by DDR QUEEN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm, what I m thinking of this senario is.....
you are so lucky that inspite of hateing that person so much still that guy cares for you. I m not telling you that whether that guys loves or not, what I m telling u is dont say "you want to run from this loser".
if you dont like that guy then tell him frankly that you dont want him to talk about you or you dont like him. He will stop doing that. that;s the only thing you can do.
what I think is, lucky that friends come to you or talk about you, inspite of you dont want them to do...
you are really lucky...
2007-03-05 15:30:41 · answer #7 · answered by jimmychris_81 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Excuse me, are you a girl? If you are, get a chap to hold you and walk pass that loser, that’ll give him the message, that you don’t like him. But if you are a boy, sorry I can’t help you.
2007-03-05 15:29:04 · answer #8 · answered by FlowMaster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say more bad thing of him!
"will u go away please...u're smell bad...do u sleep with the garbage?...anyway listen, i don't wanna be rude, but if u still doing this idiotic thing...i'll tore ur hearteven more!!!"
i usually does that to someone who teased me...and he stop doing that ever since!
it's good to be nice...but there are some problem we should solve with rude words!
2007-03-05 15:29:24 · answer #9 · answered by althaea_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well fist of all ....ignore him.
just be mean but not too mean like don't break his heart but make your point.
but think first before you do because you may end up really hurting him....even if you don't care trust me broken hearts really suck. don't be a heart breaker.
2007-03-05 15:28:29 · answer #10 · answered by brokenheart235 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋