married 20 years.2 kids.
2007-03-05 15:18:11 · 17 answers · asked by henna 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
wow that sounds really rough ='(. and i thought i had relationship problems...I really hope you can accept your husband because personally, i see nothing wrong with gays. they do nothing to us but be normal people...please don't discriminate against him, if you fell in love before there is no reason you shouldn't still love him no matter what. love him for who he is even if he's gay.
2007-03-05 15:22:05 · answer #1 · answered by lauren 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You have married from him 20 years. well experienced lady. If u feel you can leave with him in this position without any tension, objection dont think much and leave happily. Otherwise you left him just now without much thinking. In my openion u have 2 kids so think of them and take care of them. homosexualily is not a normal thing.
2007-03-06 00:48:24 · answer #2 · answered by asha j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mom and dad were married for 22years. As soon as my little sister moved out of the house, they divorced. Then out came the reason... My father is a cross dresser and wants to be woman. My mom said in order to feel validated as a woman she had to divorce him and find her happiness. Don't know if that helped, but your most definantly not alone with your dilemma.
2007-03-05 23:28:03 · answer #3 · answered by ekco24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry, but everyone else is right, you should just let him go and find someone else. Although don't completely shut him off from the family, after all, he does have two kids with you. Build a friendship of it, but if you want to be romantically involved, then look somewhere else.
2007-03-05 23:38:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are the kids? Can hubby be happy married to you? Are you happy knowing this? Is he cheating with another man? Lots of questions not discussed that shape the answer.
Bottom line is if you want to keep him, let him know. Lay down your rules for keeping him. Don't settle for less.
2007-03-05 23:23:17 · answer #5 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
After being together for 20 years, and bearing 2 offsprings, you ask this.
Whatever, divert his interests. Show him how much fun it can be being with you. He would definitely forget about his intimacies with a male if he could enjoy more with you.
:-)
2007-03-06 14:46:27 · answer #6 · answered by plato's ghost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lemme see is it kinda a hoax??
after 20 years later and having 2 kids u are askin this question on yahoo answers what should u do b4 5 hours.......hmmmm
dotn wanna waste my time on this
take care
be good
god bless
2007-03-06 04:08:18 · answer #7 · answered by vagabond x 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends- if what you need in a husband is a good friend, a financial partner, then maybe you should make it more of a friendship based marriage. If you need romantic love, then you need to start looking elsewhere. I'm sorry but I think it would hurt very much to stay, if it were me.
2007-03-05 23:21:34 · answer #8 · answered by niwriffej 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
maybe get a 12 guage pump shotgun and bust a cap in his ***...no really...not sure what to do other than be there for your kids and try to keep your chin up...likely support groups that can help
2007-03-05 23:22:28 · answer #9 · answered by kevin c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i m surprised that after 20 years u have realised. or he has turned to gay relations, of late.
u need to talk to him or take him to counseller so that he doesn't ignore u.
2007-03-05 23:45:14 · answer #10 · answered by Kumar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋