I am 8 months pregnant and I live in Arizona. I left my boyfriend and moved down here with my dad because he was cheating on me with his other baby mama. Since I've moved, I have been doing very well down here financially. We got back together October 2006 because we decided to work things out for our daughter and our unborn child. He wants me to move back Chicago so that we can get a apartment because his other daughter is there. Only I dont' know if I should do it because he is messing around with his baby mama again and I think that he is just using his daughter as an exscuse to stay closer to the other girl. I know that he is cheating because she answered his phone twice at like 3:00 in the morning telling me that he was over her house. I'm trying to hang in with him for these kids, but I'm thinking enough is enough. I left him the first time for the same exact thing and he still hasn't learned his lesson. Should I leave him and stay in Arizona or move back to Chicago?
2007-03-05 15:16:30 · 7 answers · asked by stoney7786 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The best thing for you is to stay in Arizona with your support. If ding-dong wants to be with you, he'll leave Chicago.
I wish I understood how you got pregnant by a guy with a known "baby mama" on the side.
2007-03-05 15:20:42 · answer #1 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should leave him. Even if he decides to move to Arizona, a cheater is a cheater and they are hard to change. All it will do is have you stressed out and your shouldn't stress ecspecially now that your about to have the baby. You said it yourself your doing good financially. You don't need him or the baby mamma drama.
2007-03-05 15:24:40 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said that you are doing better in Arizona so stay there! If he really wants to be with you he can move. You have done enough for him. Time to take care of yourself and your kids. Good Luck!!
2007-03-05 15:20:54 · answer #3 · answered by mysweetluvie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay in Arizona, you already are doing well for yourself and you don't need to get involved in all his drama again, the more you continue to take his back the more you keep sending the message to him that what he did is ok because you keep forgiving him, you deserve better and he should have more respect for you as the mother of his child not to keep playing mind games and disrespecting you the way he has......
2007-03-09 14:46:56 · answer #4 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course he hasn't learned his leason because you haven't taught him anything, you left him and then you went back, so the only message you sent was that it was ok for him to do whatever he wants to do because you will take him back anyway
2007-03-05 15:20:28 · answer #5 · answered by zether 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
leave him you deserve better.you will find someone else someone who will treat u better.your kids dont need a man figure like that in thier lives
2007-03-05 15:52:17 · answer #6 · answered by kwala 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay in AZ, he is not going to change anytime soon...
2007-03-05 15:27:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋