what do men find the most attractive about a woman?

Question

is it really how voulptrous they are or is skinny and thin what they like

Answer 1

Sadly, it's availability.

Answer 2

Depends on the woman . . . different things about different women stand out as attractive. Hair, face, nose, eyes, mouth, butt, legs. Everyone has certain features that stand out . . . and that some others find attractive! Beauty, as they say, is in the eye of the beholder. But to answer your specific question, definitely NOT skinny & thin! Or at least, not for THIS beholder!

Answer 3

Well from me I can tell you that may be in the first look I may look for voluptuous, I don't like flat plank women, but if I have the chance to meet her her what determines if I'll like her or not is the things I can catch from inside because these things let you know how that person really is. the out side beauty is something it will finish some day, but in the way you are inside is what determines who'll you be for the rest of your life.

Answer 4

So you're asking this question about men's attraction to women in the gay/lesbian/bisexual area since you're curious about what bi men find the most attractive about bi women? So you're a bi woman looking for a bi man? Speaking as a bi woman, it depends on the bi guy what they find attractive. Some bi guys like bi women with big chests, some like skinny tiny little bi women. Next question for bisexuals about men and women's attractions for each other?

Answer 5

It is a very difficult question to answer because likes are something unique to every person, to some it is about their looks, to others their way of thinking. Most of the time a combination of both.
But to tell the truth i believe that the first impression is made by how they look.
Some of us like a sporty looking girl, others like other types of women. Its a question of taste.

Answer 6

Well, I'll use myself as an example - Maybe this'll help.

I am 6 feet tall and weigh 170lbs. I have two master degrees and am working on my doctorate.

I am considered good looking by my friends and always seem to have "Hot" girls around me. I could, on any given night, make a few phone calls and have a hot girl to sleep with, and most likely have sex with.

I am a rebel. A bad boy-type who looks like he could kick your a**. My only means of transportation is my motorcycle (Classic Harley Davidson WL45 - 750cc, 1946. Civilian model - Black)

I have three tattoos and will not get any more. I have a mohawk and like every type of music. I was raised upper class, but ran away from home and have put myself through college and refused any money from the family.

I still love my family, but abhor their upper-class superiority and materialism. I will complete my doctorate, just because I do not quit things and I am interested... But, when I graduate, I will travel on my bike - probably join the Hell's Angels (I've been invited) and work as a bike mechanic for a few years, just because I love it so much.

I speak three languages, am proficient at the piano and guitar and am still young.

NOW.

What does someone like myself look for in a girl?

As a matter of fact, I rarely will find myself interested in the girls I meet - college campuses do not offer a depth of selection...

But here is what I require - usually (I've been pleasantly suprised by someofthe most unlikely candidates):

Physically:
If a girl has an amazing personality, I will be attracted to her, even if she is plain ugly by most jock's standards. But if I had to choose a "look."

Here:
Adriana Lima
Scarlett Johansen
Alessandra Ambrosio
Vida Guerra

Personality is important to me: I like all kinds of personality - she can be sweet and very much a lady, she can be a tomboy and like to rough around some, she can be bookish and shy, or a total rebel/biker chick... All this is fine with me - I can deal with it all.

TURN OFF'S:
Fundamental Christian women (especially if they are Republican)
I do not mind a fiscal Republican - but I do mind a social conservative!
Fat (I'm so sorry, but I've given it a try - more than once - because I felt that somehow it was unenlightened of me to not consider ladies because of their weight.. But every-time, a lazy/unmotivated factor would just surface. There's a psychology behind it all that I do not wish to go into right now.

My idea of a "nightmare" woman:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iCh2FXzD6R4

I tend to be attracted to powerful women. I like independent women, but I found one girl particularly intriguiging, when she described herself as a feminist (after the style of Camille Paglia) and yet liked the idea that I was an aggressive type personality with very masculine traits! She insisted on waiting on me (cooking, domestic type things) I tell you, it's a crazy world.

When a girl is over-materialistic or spoiled (can't go camping, ride on my motorcycle, it rubs me the wrong way.

I like intelligence in a woman, not necessarily a formal education, but that she has her wits about her. Now, if she's not too bright, but has an interesting personality, that can make up for a lot. I love women who rock, who can handle tools, welders, and are not afraid to get dirty, but can also appreciate formal occasions (dinners, symphony, opera)

Religious: I prefer someone who has thought out their views on religion: Perhaps an atheist, agnostic, universalist, even a Catholic may be OK as long as she is not judgmental or dogmatic.

Sex: She must be clean, that is, disease free... If I fall in love with her, she can have something (disease-wise) and we will work through it together - it won't matter at that point.

I like sex and like days of marathon sex and would like to have sex at least once a day, as an average - especially early in the relationship!

I hope this helps you - this is what one person finds attractive in women.

Answer 7

What attracts men to women, and I mean attraction stronger than sex, I mean really value the woman in every way; physically and intellectually that you just can't stand being away from her and want to please her and make her happy, is confidence and kindness. A woman who loves herself and knows that she's hot with every piece of clothing she picks to wear and who behaves with strong self-love (not conceited of course) is the woman in the dreams of every man (not boy, mind you.) Also a woman who likes to take care of a man similar to a mother to her child. It's true we men love our mommas so do the women who treat us with sweet loving. So take your pick. who do you want to attract. I hope you want a man.

Answer 8

It can depend on your lover.When Kristy Alie was large I sill found her to be hot I think she looks beater now then she did in The Search For Spock.

Answer 9

Skinny waste, but a nice booty and nice tadies. If you have to chose between a little bit skinny or a little bit overweight, a little skinny is better.
But what things about women are attractive? psssht...everything.....eyes, mouth, hands, feet, booty, breases, etc, etc.

Answer 10

There really needs to be a "straight" section on Yahoo Answers! Sick of seeing these questions here. Do you people also watch Queer as Folk do get ideas on heterosexual dating??

Answer 11

The pretty face. Then the body. Then her feminine personality.