Is my best friend lying?

Question

Ok, I have a crush on this boy, he like's me back. And he been sending me love letters kind of lol..
But I think it's my best friend sending them..
Ok every monday after school she goes to strings and last monday i got a letter in my locker, and she told me their is another one. It's like a secret between her and my crush because i'm too shy to talk to him.
So yeah..
Should i trust my best friend? She lied too many times, But if i lie to her like she lied to me she gets really mad.. We just got into it on the phone..
Because she's trying to figure out what he wrote in the note, and i was like, he told me "not to tell ya'll" then she was like your actually going to listen to him, so i lied i just told her something to make her stop asking. Then she found out I lied and she's saying.
She's trying to make me hate him, by telling me all these things. But I don't believe her, she's mad because i trust him more then i trust her. What should I do? and is she lying ?

Answer 1

Ok sweetie, STOP calling her ur friend and PLEASE dont think of her as a BEST FRIEND because freidns would never do the things she's doing. This girl sounds like she may be jealous of u and u really shouldn't trust her. U said she lies too many times, u said she gets really mad at u.

What u need to do is stop being so shy and take the letters and ask the guy u like if he's writing and sending them to u,

Because as long as ur shy she's gonna keep doing this she 's knows u not gonna say anything to him about this so now whatu need to do is take charge. Don't let her know ur gonna do it becausae then she'll talk to him 1st tell him to say (yes) he sent them to u.

I think she may like this guy herself and she's not to be trust because who knows what she may be telling him.

DON'T TRUST THIS GIRL AND TAKE CHARGE, end the friendship with her and stop being too shy to talk with this guy.

Another reason why I say u shouldn't be too shy to talk to him for ur self is because, if girls are too shy with a guy she like and she likes the guy, the problem is he may not like the fact that ur too shy and he will go with another girl who's not too shy about how she feels about him. U so called friend may b ne of those girls whos not shy about her feelings.

And stop telling her things to she may try to use it against u

Answer 2

The toughest place to be is cornered between friendship and romance. Try not to accuse your friend of anything directly, but check around a bit with friends or other people you trust. Have they seen anything suspicious going on? If so, you should really reconsider calling this person a true friend. A true friend would wish the best for you, not try to ruin parts of life. You know that she has a record of doing these things, so be very wary. Keep in touch with her, but don't get too close to a person like this... your friend sounds like she might bring trouble.

Answer 3

I think I lost you somewhere after the first sentence. You might want to ignore the boys and start paying more attention in English class. Who cares if a guy likes you? He's not going to get you into college; he's not going to get you a job; he's not going to keep your GPA up; and he's not going to bring you closer to your best friend......but paying attention in school will. Boys should not be a priority right now.

Answer 4

I got a headache reading this. But the best way to catch someone in a lie is to keep asking them questions. They'll trip up sooner or later.

Answer 5

Um, this girl is obviously not your true friend! Go with the guy! If she didn't really lie then you have some apoligizing to do. But if she's trying to make him not like you, that's just wrong! TAKE THE GUY!

Answer 6

It's difficult to say precisely in your situation. But if lies can help in a good way then it's acceptable otherwise it can cause betrayal among two loved ones.

Answer 7

i think you should become brave and talk to the boy
that is the only way to find out if she is lying or not.
And if she is lying confront her and asked why she did it.
If she doesn't give a straight answer shes not a true friend.

Answer 8

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Answer 9

Let the love takes its course.

Answer 10

if you love his actually thus you tell trust his