I really need your help!! Ok, so, we were doing this project, and we were deciding which part each person wants to do. Since I didn't talk, and tell my opinion, I ended up having to do the hardest part. and I'm still learning English!!
Also, since I'm too shy, it's really hard to make friends........
Are there any ways to get rid of my shyness??
2007-03-05 15:05:29 · 4 answers · asked by Kazzy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Try pushing yourself everyday to do something to overcome your shyness. Like you could try to make small talk with the person sitting next to you in one of your classes. Raise your hand in class and ask a question, which will get you more comfortable speaking in those situations too. Observe people who are very social and confident, and trick yourself into thinking you are confident like them. This might give you the boost you need to speak up and be less shy. It's tough, but you can become less shy, if you push yourself a little. Goodluck!
2007-03-05 15:16:13 · answer #1 · answered by LH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to be really shy, too, but I started joining plays, drama camps, volunteering to teach a church class, etc. Sure I mess up a lot in class presentations, but don't think too much about it. Chances are nobody will remember if you screwed up. If you embarress yourself in public, laugh it off. It always worked for me and people thought it was a joke so they laugh with me. After all the drama presentations and teaching classes, my friends now say "wow, you are so talkitive now." Hope this helped.
2007-03-05 23:23:05 · answer #2 · answered by curious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how u feel about being shy...i am the same way...or at least i used to be...one day i decided that i didn't care wat people thought of me...either they liked me or they didnt...i decided to just let loose and be myself...go up to someone and be like hey how are u or hey i really like your shirt...just talk to someone...i know if i can do it you can do it...trust me...u can't live your whole life being shy...it wont get you anywhere...trust me...just don't think about being shy and do it!!! hope this works for you...just please try it!!!
2007-03-05 23:18:08 · answer #3 · answered by sns_110989 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just hang out with people you feel conferable around and you should make lots of Friends
2007-03-05 23:16:41 · answer #4 · answered by dominique g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋