My parents suck. My friends are fake and ignore me all of the time. All of my teachers treat me like crap. I hate people. My life has been a living Hell for the past several years because of everyone. Is it even worth trying to make it in life anymore? Maybe the best solution is to become as selfish as I possibly can and not give a crap about other people, nobody deserves my kindness. Fair compensation?
2007-03-05 14:49:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
No, I used to be kind and I actually made an effort to socialize with others, but I was given the cold shoulder; everyone treated me like dirt, especially my parents and "friends", whom I least expected to bring misery into my life...
2007-03-05 14:54:49 · update #1
Hey honey, I really think you need to give life a chance. Otherwise I think you need to find a counselor. No it isn't OK to compensate for life's misery! No the solution is NOT to become selfish and not give a crap about other people. Yes, people, or most people deserve your kindness, please keep looking!!!
2007-03-05 14:57:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can definitely understand where you are coming from however, if you say "compensate" it is more like you are giving up on life, and you do not want to lose, yes, every one is 2-faced but no matter what, there will always be mean people but i can guarantee if you look just a little longer, there will be someone who opens up to you and maybe you wont but try to open yourself as long as you can so someone can find you. not only will it make you a stronger person who does not rely on what others think but you will also feel good about yourself knowing you are better than a loser!
2007-03-05 15:16:08 · answer #2 · answered by pjjuang24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously get of the soap box that your on. Everyone goes through hard times. EVERYONE! If you think your friends suck, change your friends, You only have to live with your parents so long, just get over yourself. everyone has there lows.
2007-03-05 15:03:29 · answer #3 · answered by band_nerds_rock2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No because what if you do cross roads with someone who can and will appreciate you for all that you are and have to offer....the only time you should give up on life is when you can't take another breathe...so don't give in, society wants you too, but don't give in to them, you are better than that.....Aren't you????
2007-03-05 14:53:16 · answer #4 · answered by Sol 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u know sometimes i really i wish i could be dead but things turn around eventually and if u r gona be mean to everyone else uh.....i dont usually say this but try to get yourself expelled! as stupid as it sounds u will have a break and probably move to a different better school =)
just dont try to go mean again lol good luck........uh......i am thirsty typing all of this and my hand hurts better go take a break =D
2007-03-05 14:54:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you a teenager or younger? if so, everyone sucks at your age. it's a difficult time in your life. you want to be who you are without criticism from anyone. you need to share your problems with someone so you can learn to relax.
if you are 20 years old or older. you need therapy.
2007-03-05 14:54:30 · answer #6 · answered by lilpinay 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to lower your expectations of everyone.
With an attitude like that- I wouldn't want to hang with you either.
You should talk toa therapist.
2007-03-05 14:51:30 · answer #7 · answered by Mommyk232 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh my gosh.. I feel depressed just reading this. What you need to do, is stop feeling sorry for yourself. Pity party is over hon, go home.
2007-03-05 14:52:08 · answer #8 · answered by Smiley 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are probably right people sometimes suck and if you are mean to them they will probably be nicer to you I don't know why this is.
2007-03-05 14:54:43 · answer #9 · answered by iseemen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The pleasure you get from drinking milk is not in the milk.
2007-03-05 14:55:32 · answer #10 · answered by bullwinkle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋