i tried it for the fist time on friday and i liked it and i wanna try it again but my bff made me promise her to never do it again. so, i promised and she said "its ok to not promise, just dont lie to me and do it behind my back".. and i said "i promise" im afraid that this might happen... and i don't see what the big deal is w/pot either. should i just party with my other friends while she's with her straight edge navy bound christian boyfriend on friday nights and not tell her??
2007-03-05 14:27:31 · 2 answers · asked by gina_d 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
btw i LOVE my bff to but she just doesnt party.. her and her bf are gunna get married one day i just know it, but lets just say if she wernt with him i could get her to party with me. but thats just a fantasy that will never happen. is it cool for me to hide this from her that i have "party" friends and then "her", and i just keep my party life quiet around her?
2007-03-05 14:37:33 · update #1
SOMEONE ANSWER PLZZZ!!
2007-03-06 14:07:18 · update #2
It is perfectly acceptable to have friends that are completely different and no you don't have to tell the one group about the other.
Your friend should not be controlling your actions. She has every right to offer her advise but that does NOT mean you have to use it.
Pot (which I used when I was getting chemo) is illegal and if caught can mess up your record. Be careful if you chose that route.
2007-03-07 05:08:13 · answer #1 · answered by maj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first off if she doesnt like u for who u r she aint a real friend bt if i was in ur position i would sit n talk to her n tell her u want to party u want to get hi n that it aint all that bad ... maybe tell her that her boyfriend has a strong influence on her choices n thats not koo she should think n do wat she wants not her boy friend bt jus talk to her n if she still is the same way then maybe u have to go behind her back bt think about if she found out was partying worth losin a friend ? i dnt kno i smoke weed n i party thats how i have fun n no one will change that ... smokin weed aint bad u cnt die from it well u can if ur stupid n do sumtin dumb then u die bt u cnt die from jus smokin it ... make sure she knows that cus before i started smokin weed i thought it was horrible bt it aint as bad as ppl make it seem ... n not that addicting ... u jus have to control it n not let it control u ... sorry goin off the subject bt yea talk to her ...
2007-03-07 14:26:06 · answer #2 · answered by juggalette~dopey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋