Why is it happening seems that I've lost the desire of having sex with my partner?

Answer 1

What is happening are you under stress, did it just happen over night, was it gradual, do you not desire your partner?
So, there are many variables....are you going through menopause, did you just have a baby...more details...are you depressed???

Answer 2

It could be a lot of reasons... some drop in your desire to sleep with your partner is normal as the relationship progresses. Once you're in a long-established relationship you don't have that whole "Oh man I have to tap this guy before he is gone because then I may never have sex AGAIN" urgency. Try doing new adventurous things to perk up your desires, if this is the case.

Or you could be premenopausal and suffering from low hormone levels. Or you could be having a reaction to many common medications, notably antidepressants. Or maybe your partner has become less sexually attractive. Or maybe you're getting ready to leave your partner. The possibilities are endless.

Answer 3

i am 28 and i been wondering the same about myself. It makes me nervous because its been months and i almost dont even care if he goes out to be with someone else. Sex grossses me out. It might ruin my relationship but i dont even care at long as i dont have to be the one to have to do it to him. I also feel used a lil bit , we been together for 7 years and lived together from day one and he is not agressively trying to marry me so maybe thats why i feel turned off. We made plans but it never happened yet. So with that plus other issues i think its mental.

Answer 4

Me too. I think a lot of women feel this way. Many of my friends say the same thing. I would rather do something else. It's become a necessary evil in my house!!

Answer 5

maybe you think that u could have a better sex partner