recently my bf has been acting way different than wat he used to and its making me think that hes cheating on me but ppl are saying that he wouldnt do that to me and then there are ppl who are telling me he just want to get in my pants. today i had to ask my bf's freinds mitchel if he was cheating on me and he said he wasnt. so after that i had asked him wat he does on the weekends when he doesnt call me. note that he hasnt called me in almost 2 3 weeks, but anyway hes worrying me wat can i do to see if hes cheating on me or if hes getting bored w/ me? plz help me i really need your guy's help.
2007-03-05 14:05:18 · 17 answers · asked by sec_cogley 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If he hasn't called in that long, something's up.
Incidentally, you don't ask one of his boys if he's cheating. They will lie except in one and only one circumstance: when the guy you ask wants to get with you.
2007-03-05 14:08:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have alot options but these are the ones that seem most logical to me:
1. talk to him about it.... communication is the only way a relationship will stay alive.. and if you haven't talked to him for that long then there is obviously some need for it.....
2. dump him... even if he's not cheating on you there are some good reasons you should dump him
a. he hasn't been talking to you or being very much of a bf.....
b. you dont even trust him,obviousely from the fact you think he's cheating on you yall have some issues.....
c. if he's just simply getting bored of you then the best course of action is drop him like a hot potatoe and go and get yourself a man who isn't a dick.
.......it is possably he's cheating on you, some of the signs say so and i would assume he was, however i don't know him so cant really say.........
2007-03-05 22:12:39 · answer #2 · answered by may 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he hasn't called u for 2-3 wks., it's a good bet he's found someone else. His best friend is just covering for him. Don't waste anymore time on this guy, he just doesn't have the guts to tell u he's seeing another girl. Sorry honey, it's over, get back in the game, find someone who'll be true to U. Best of Luck!
2007-03-05 22:22:28 · answer #3 · answered by louise b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just prepare yourself for anything! If he's cheating at first is really painfull (My boyfriend fell in love with some girl in two months, after we were going out for 3 years). We were going to ger married. He started changing, not calling me so often, or coming over on weekend ,changing the way he dressed, he gave me excuses. I loved him so much! I still remember him. After a year I had another boyfriend who I felt in love with and got married. I get along with my husband better than my first love. In other words God will send you a partner, or boyfriend who will appreciate you. Then your cheating boyfriend will want to come back to you. Don't go back with him he's not worth it. If he does it once, he will do it again. You sound like your a young girl. you will meet someone in the future who will love you for who you are. When your sad cry out to God he will show you the way.
2007-03-05 22:29:59 · answer #4 · answered by Betty76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know these people, and can thus only speak in general terms.
I doubt that asking his friends is going to get you honest answers.
Perhaps you should view this situation this way: He is acting defferently than you are accustomed to. He hasn't called you in weeks. I think it is over. It can be over without another girl - maybe he just doesn't feel the same as he did before. There's no science to this stuff. Maybe he's afraid of a longer term commitment.
Please move on - there's lots of fish in the sea! Find one that will tell you what's going on in his head.
2007-03-05 22:12:37 · answer #5 · answered by KirksWorld 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Look Ive had boyfriends cheat on me and Its not nice, remember that you deserve the best and the only way to find out Is time or be a spy, I think If you really really are paranoid and are certain you may have to check on him It wont hurt, you dont want any std's If he Is playing around hun stuff him you can do better, and remember time heals.
2007-03-05 22:15:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just said it... he hasn't called you in 2-3 weeks. i would have considered it over after the first 7 days. Seasons are changing and so should your attitude. Put on a new spring skirt and look for a new man.
2007-03-05 22:09:11 · answer #7 · answered by ♥eLizAbEtH♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well try to talk to him. if he tries to avoid u or gets irritated real easily after like 3-5 questions, then he may be cheating on u. if he confesses he's been real busy, then there is still reason to suspect if he doesnt tell what he's been doin. if u hav to ask him that, and if he says " u know, work and stuff" or something close to it, he's most likely cheating.
2007-03-05 22:11:26 · answer #8 · answered by D.Money 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he has'nt called you in 2-3 weeks, but normaly he has been in touch sooner than that..I would think something is goijng on in his mind. Maybe he is not cheating..maybe he is thinking of things and needs time/ Personally..I would'nt trust his friend to let me know if he is cheating or not, as it is his friend! They will stick up for him.
call hhim, ask him what is going on..if he is still not avialabe..time to move on..as he seems to have.
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2007-03-05 22:09:54 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The key to a relationship is communication.. You can never steer wrong by talking to your boyfriend. What I wouldn't do is ask his friends. You never want to involve your other half friends in any situation you might be in. It's not good to let everyone know your business.
2007-03-05 22:09:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋