please plase PLEASE HELP?

Question

ok so i used to be the eprfect student my whole entire life. the whole thing straight A's every year every class. perfect conduct 4's. (which are the highest) now i am slipping not big time but in my world it seems that way. in a few Honor classes I have B's (not report card but progrees report) and my conduct is 2's (1 is lowest) and im on this list ti get conferrence though my teacher says might not get it. since last year i tend to talk much more and ive changed (not in a erally bad way) its jsutt hat i hang out with alittle bit different people. not that these people are bad they get a's and b;s but i used to hang out well with people that were well perfect but not fun wise? any advice helps thank you sooo much!

Answer 1

So are your grades slipping because you feel something else is more important or because these new friends don't think grades are as important? If its because of you, thats ok so long as you're not majorly slacking off. If its because of what they think, thats not cool.
I would say, though, not to worry about it too much. Bs aren't that bad, and you don't have to be perfect to be a good person. There's so many things more important in life than the letters that get printed on some slip of paper and sent home. If its important to you, its only part way through the term, you've got time to pull your grades up. Don't drive yourself crazy over it. Best of luck.

Answer 2

i can relate to your situation -except it was with guys. i am a straight A's student and got too caught up in liking a guy and totally forgot about my work at school and got a couple of b's and one c on my progress report. i learned from my lesson that NEVER EVER let your social life (and not guys, either) gain control of your academic life. oh and i also found out that the guy i liked was TOTALLY not worth liking AT ALL. i learned my lesson big time and stopped liking guys for a while...then i worked really hard and brought up my grades. make sure that you aren't getting lazy - work hard to achieve!
studies are waayy more important that being social. just tell your group of friends that you need to bring (or keep) up your grades. focus a little less on hanging out with those people after school and working on your homework instead. just tell the truth to your friends, and if they were truly your buddies, they would understand. just bring up your grades and conduct and then when you're absolutely SURE that your academic status will not drop, you can resume your fun, but just make sure you still get good grades.
also, about the conduct thing, if you're talking in class with your friends too much, if they talk to you, just say that you dont want to talk because your condu7ct grade is really important to you. if theyre your friends they will understand and not talk to you so much during class.
i hope you do better - good luck!

Answer 3

Well Sweetheart,

I am not trying to judge you new friends however, you must decide whether their plans for the future fall in line with yours. Compare the two groups and make a determination of their similarities and differences. This may give you the answer that you are desperately seeking.

I am willing to bet (and I am not a gambler) that the "A" group more that likely have ideals of entering professions and the "B" group are more than likely "party people" who are looking at entering some "blue collar" type of jobs.

Since I do not know either group, you and you alone must make this decision. Obviously making "A's" has been important to you as well as you "conduct" in class. Best of luck.

Answer 4

Focus more on your studies and less on your social life for a little while, and, once you've got your studies under control, go back to being social. In other words, hit the books and don't talk with friends as much. If your friends ask you where you are, just say you're busy with family or be honest. Whichever one you're comfortable with.

Answer 5

change is good. you are probly more outgoing now, which is why you have different friends and your grades are slipping a little. definitely keep hanging out with your friends, because it will make your life less stressful and more fun. on the other hand, make sure you devote time to studying or homework everyday. that will ensure that you keep up on your grades, while also having good times with your friends. good luck!

Answer 6

Fun is OK...but it sounds like you need to get focused on your school work again and " hang out" with your books for a while. There will be plenty of time later to play. Take care of business first, play later. Good luck.

Answer 7

it sounds like you just are starting to focus on friends and your social life a little more then your school work and im sure that getting b's are a shock to you but that's still not that bad. you just need to find a happy middle with socail and school life and you should be back to were you use to be i had something like that happen to me to as along as you balance everything out soon you'll be fine!!! well Good Luck

Answer 8

i have the same problem! sometimes you just get so stressed that u can't help but fall behind and you're still a great student, a lot of kids have trouble getting c's, so don't rag on yourself, just try to do a little better! plus, its waayyyy harder in honor!

Answer 9

Why does it have to be one way or another.? ..hang out with the fun people but tell them when you need to do homework or study etc....keep up your grades and attitude....If they are your friends then they will accept you as you are ,( brainiac type) and understand ............... if not then they are not your friends..

Answer 10

ask your parents for advise