ok well i have this friend and she is starting to be a real retard like there is our other friend and she keeps pulling her away form me like i can't talk to her too and it's really getting on my nerves. she also like everytime i say something she has something retared to say back......what should i tell her to shut up?......oh one more thing i have this friend (whos a guy) and he is very scared of her but shes like upsessed with him!! how can i tell her i a nice way that she scares the crap out of him??? PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!=]
2007-03-05 13:56:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well you wrote she's a friend right? If you're her friend you should try to find out what's going on with her. When she says something silly stop her dead in her tracks and ask her why she said that?. This is the time to tell her that she's acting very strange. Try not to do this when other people are around (that's rude). Let her know that this change is starting to make everyone feel odd around her. You can also take this time to let her know about that guy friend. Add that he isn't comfortable around her. She may not realize she's changing. As a friend you should let her know what's on your mind. Please don't use the word retard though that's rude and unfriendly. There will come a time when your friends start thinking you're strange too. This is a time in a girls life when she begins to change. So give her a break.
2007-03-05 14:11:16 · answer #1 · answered by quel772o 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should let her know how you feel. If she is a true friend she will understand and put a stop to all those unwanted comments, but if she just keeps it going you should just put her to the side because you really need friends you can count on. And on regards to your guy friend just tell him to give her the turn around if she really scares him?
2007-03-05 22:05:10 · answer #2 · answered by florecitarivera 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would pull her aside and tell her that she needs to tone it down a little bit...The next time she says something back when you say something, Say whatever and walk away.
If she's going to be a pain in the butt then it's definitely not worth it.
As goes for the guy. If he doesn't like her, have HIM tell her. That way she gets it.
The truth sucks.
Good Luck.
Kryistal
2007-03-05 22:01:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm okay well talk to the friend thats being pulled away from u. this has happened to me. i didnt talk to her tho bcause i new i couldnt win. my best friend is popular and always being pulled away from me my the other kids so i gave up and now i just talk to her when no one else is around her. its alot easier
tell the girl straight to her face that the guy she is obseesed wit is intimidated by her. maybe she should tough down a bit
2007-03-05 22:01:45 · answer #4 · answered by Miss Casey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably just jealous of you. You should tell her to stop being so annoying and try to grow up a lil. If she keep doing what she's doing then try and ignore her if you dont give her any attention she will be irritated...(she just wont show it) and tell her crush how she act.
2007-03-05 22:01:12 · answer #5 · answered by honeyy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what the hell are you a consulor???? LOL... well girlie just tell her stright out and just tell her "hey shut the hell up already you sound retarded!" that's what i do!
2007-03-05 22:02:26 · answer #6 · answered by princess leia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"WTF You've been acting like such a freakin retard..."
If she doesn't see the light, then... how will you convince her?
2007-03-05 22:01:41 · answer #7 · answered by Eden 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋