Okay theres this boy and ive liked him for 3 years and i dated him for a year and a half off and on. well last summer he got a girlfriend. and they are supposedly "in love". He told me they were engaged. but yet he flirts with me, he trys to hold my hands, and what makes me want to cry is that, everytime i look into his eyes i see everything that i need, i see heaven on Earth, im just happy when im with him. But every time him and his girlfriend breaks up he says well its over for good this time, and he tricks me to believing that it really is over, then.. it happens again, they start going back out. and i cry and i cry and i cry over and over again and i just cant stop. I feel like he is the only one who can make me stop and usually he is the one. I just dont understand why he makes me have to got through all of this pain. and he told me that he will always be here for me no matter what, and that i am his only true friend. And i believe him, i just wonder if its all worth fighting for
2007-03-05 13:46:15 · 12 answers · asked by Catiet 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
hey hun. first off i know what your going through and I'm gonna tell you from the bottom of my heart that you deserve sooo much better and I know its easier said then done, but you need to let him go, let it go, accept what is and move on because otherwise it will eat you up inside and deny you the possibility of finding someone who truly values you and adores you with all their heart as much as you could love them. If he REALLY cared, he wouldn't cause you any pain, believe me, i know sometiimes in relationships things happen, but if a man really wants you, absolutely nothing will keep him from you, and he will jerk you around until you realize that you've had enough and stop it, you are allowing him to do this, don't hurt yourself anymore, there are so many guys, and believe it or not there are some pretty decent ones out there, there is someone for everyone. so don't let him hurt you, let it go and you'll find true happiness, it'll come, don't lose faith, always keep hope alive. and the next guy will truly make you feel loved, and cherished and you won't have to cry and cry cause he'll do everything to keep you happy. <3 please think about it, i been there.. get your head up high, you are better than this. don't let him play with your emotions, if he really loved you, he would be with you, and not play with you and your emotions and break your heart. for love to work it has to be both ways or else, it simply isn't ENOUGH. good luck and God Bless. xOx
2007-03-05 14:22:40 · answer #1 · answered by latina ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good god, you got it bad! This is gonna hurt like hell, I hate to tell ya. I also hate to be the bearer of bad news, but if he loved you, he would be engaged to you. And he's not. You should stop the crying and find someone who truly wants to be with you. Heaven in his eyes you say? Well, the heaven I know of is not so painful. Trust me on this. Iv been there and it is only gonna get better when you move on cuz honey, he aint in love you. Sorry.
2007-03-05 13:53:24 · answer #2 · answered by Beachbum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, he's using u, dump him. He makes u miserable, why do u let him? STOP!! Don't let him hurt u anymore- find someone who'll love & respect u, he sure as hell doesn't. He's using u for someone to fall back on when & his g/f get into a fight. The next time he calls, hang up on him. I was in ur shoes several yrs. ago, & it took me 10 yrs. before I finally said "No more!!" Don't u wait 10 yrs. He's not worth it. No man, who makes u that miserable is worth another second of ur time. Good Luck---& get smart!
2007-03-05 14:07:34 · answer #3 · answered by louise b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl please! The boy is just keeping an extra mare in his stable as a backup in case all his other one's get away.
You have got to believe that you deserve far more than some wanna-be gigolo player who only sees you as, and I quote,..."his only true friend..."
Rise up, believe in yourself and go find the guy that's right for you because clearly it is not him.
One last thought...if you keep looking under the rocks and in the dumpsters for your boyfriends, what else can you expect to find but trash?
2007-03-05 13:55:28 · answer #4 · answered by fenway2k 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 09:02:08 · answer #5 · answered by millie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you've got those dreaded teenage hormones. you need to stop talking to him. he obviously isnt going to feel the same about you as he does about this girl because if he did he'd of choosen you and not her. what if they break up and you two get together...he's still not going to love you as much as he loved her and who wants to be second choice? thats degrading towards yourself. you need to move on and find someone who does love you, not someone who is going to chose you as thier second choice.
2007-03-05 13:59:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let the guy know straight up that what he's doing is torturing you. and then move on.
it wont be easy... but you need to do it.
best of luck.
2007-03-05 14:13:42 · answer #7 · answered by runningballerina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you need to do is talk to him you need to let him know how you feel about him and just flurt as much as you can to get him back as long as you dont hurt his girl.
2007-03-05 13:51:50 · answer #8 · answered by shelby e 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, no one is worth it who makes you cry, cry, cry.
2007-03-05 13:51:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over him as much as it hurts...he's not worth it
2007-03-05 13:49:53 · answer #10 · answered by ashann85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋