Please I'm not a lsebian and I havent felt this way about a girl before. My feelings for her are similar to those i feel for my boyfriend
2007-03-05 13:45:11 · 16 answers · asked by ggoldiee23 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Please I'm not a lsebian and I havent felt this way about a girl before. My feelings for her are similar to those i feel for my boyfriend
I have been friends for over 12 yrs now went to high school together, college and now live close to each other.
2007-03-05 14:00:47 · update #1
Hey Hun,
this is the SAME way I feel with my best friend...she and I somehow got on the subject, just poking around on it...and we both confessed we had feelings for each other and couldn't keep it in any longer. Now it's in the open, so she and I talk about it all the time...After 1 year of knowing now, we're talking more about going to the next level and maybe trying things together...and she is Engaged...But, if you just have feelings for her, its just a special bond that has grown on you after so long, and it just simply means you are very comfortable with her...talk to her about it, dont keep it in...it'll just kill even more, especially if you find out she has feelings back for you!
2007-03-10 13:18:57 · answer #1 · answered by blondeatheart4lfe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have the same feelings for her as you do for your boyfreind, then you are a bi sexual , don' t be offended to this for it is a natural thing, study it and carefully make your own choice of thinkin over it and judging whether it right. If you tell her, won't you lose her freindhip, Just talk to her of what has befallen you, may be she feels the same way and she is waiting for you to break the ice, 12 years with a freind is such a long time that nothing can be so surprising.
2007-03-12 11:10:37 · answer #2 · answered by METHER B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most likely the two of you are very close! But she doesn't know how close. Get it out in the open so that you can release all this energy inside. Laugh it out with her and feel the release within!! Your not a lesbian, so you won't have to worry about being so confused. Then tell her about my comment and laugh together. Believe me, you'll feel better!! Don't be confused by the thought of lies. Your not a lesbian! Keep your boyfriend!! Release energy!! Delia
2007-03-05 21:56:09 · answer #3 · answered by cartoonscats 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Glad you asked! If you act on every impulse like this for the rest of your life, you won't have time for any other activities! Really! ("So many men, so little time!". etc/ ) What I've learned (finally) is to just enjoy the good feelings, love everybody to the fullest appropriate extent, and only get naked with my one true love. Keeps the pleasure to the max and the agony to a minimum.
2007-03-05 21:52:10 · answer #4 · answered by shirleykins 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Attraction - physical, romantic or ? Remember the Ally McBeal show where she felt an attraction for Lucy Liu and they kissed -- nothing came of it. The story is based upon truth - many girls find other girls attractive but it doesn't make them lesbians just curious.
2007-03-11 17:41:31 · answer #5 · answered by pilot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you're bi and have just discovered the right girl. Learn to accept your desires and then figure out what you want to do from there.
2007-03-06 01:13:46 · answer #6 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
babe u just might feel this way because u do like like like her sssssssooooooooo that is FIND OK DONT TROUBLE UR SELF and pluse thats kool u just might b a BI so dont worry o and again u have a MAN and you just might need a change a dont worry change is a VERY VERY VERY good thing
2007-03-05 21:59:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
9 time out of 10 she has the same feelings as you do.. i mean come on... how many women do you know that stay friends for so long?
2007-03-13 18:17:19 · answer #8 · answered by ggwassent 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like the right woman finally came around..Many lesbians and bi's didn't know either till the right person came along..Then again it could be absolutely nothing,its up to you to make that decision..
2007-03-12 05:47:12 · answer #9 · answered by deb s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mayb u dont want to admit that u mayb bi because u don't wanna lose your friend ship with her because she may not feeel the same way you talk to her and hear what she have to say
2007-03-12 10:45:54 · answer #10 · answered by Chocolit B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋