u see he consider my 85.75 an okay grade he always tell me to do better . i tried but i kinda got tired of it then my homework got unoragnized and then get lost and that took kinda of a big chunk out my grade .well not a big chunk kinda small.now he is telling me that i shouldnt bring any more books home.he thinks thats the problem.I love reading and thats kinda of a harsh punisment to me.How can i make him relize that my grades are good enough for me to survive on?also he keeps saying if my grades stay like this i am going to be a loser like him.i dont think he is a loser.i think he is being a great father but went to far about not getting anymore books.What should i do?
2007-03-05 13:32:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Comics & Animation
You read? I wouldn't have been able to tell by all the improper english in this question.
Study harder, don't get bored of homework, you will have plenty more of it in the future. You can always read after you are done with studying.
2007-03-05 13:41:23 · answer #1 · answered by heavy_cow 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should tell him what you put on here: "i dont think he is a loser.i think he is being a great father" I do disagree with his punishment of not bringing home books. Reading is a great way to increase your intelligence (especially if you are reading at and above your level.) Reading any type of literature will increase your vocabulary and help with comprehension, predicting, and judgement. A "B" in school is a decent grade. You probably can do better, so work on getting yourself organized, and try to bring that grade up a bit.
2007-03-05 21:44:35 · answer #2 · answered by KS 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is trying to correct his past mistakes through you and he must have some regrets.
Tell him how you feel in a calm cool manner sometime when you are not even on the subject and alone, so he will know you are serious. Start out with...Dad I really want to talk to you about something, but I don't want to make you mad.....If you feel comfortable to do so with him.
If you are even remotely like me, your true feelings will usually come out anyway on moments of extreme frustration in my case.
I used to hold all that in and try to avoid friction with my parents,and then when I was stressed out Iby something I bursted into tears and told my mother my true feelings in huge drama scene and it was very messy. I learned to have calm serious converations before it gets out of hand.
HOWEVER understanding where your dad is coming from......
Trying a little harder wouldnt hurt though. Pushing yourself to do a little better is a good thing and it just might show you something about how strong a person you are, when you end up with straight A's someday.
2007-03-05 22:08:05 · answer #3 · answered by Cuppycake♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as a student right now, i know that there's a ton of pressure and i totally understand all the pressure your going through. if you want your dad to trust your doing your best, i suggest getting organized. although it's a pain, in a lot of classes, just turning in homework can help your grade a ton. it wasn't very nice of him to say that you'll be a lose, because you really need support from your family through out school and you need them to help you. if you show him your trying hard and that schools important to you, he'll probably let you bring home books. i hope you and your dad can work this out.
2007-03-05 21:41:36 · answer #4 · answered by kritz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you could try studying together...?
I dunno, i hope it works out.
2007-03-05 21:37:55 · answer #5 · answered by aa.gabriel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋