Ok. Well I met this guy through mutual friends. We seen each other before. When my friend told me he was interested in me, I couldn't put the face with the name. Anyway, my friend's fiance works with him. So her fiance gave her his number to give to me to call him. She sent it to me through email.
Anyway, we talk and I thought we were called. I have alot of respect for him because he never asked the infamous question, "Can I comeover tonight?". We basically had general conversations. I tried to go deeper but our conversations remained on the surface level. It was like he was trying not to offend which is cool. Well my friend's fiance had a b-day party 2 weeks ago and we met up there. We had a good time. So I thought everything was cool.
I'm not expecting to receive a call everyday but when I do get a call I atleast want to have a conversation for more than 5 mins. Well I got a call from him on last tuesday. Well that conversation lasted less the 5 mins. He basically told me that his job worked him hard that day and he was tired. He asked me what time did I get off. I told him at 6. Then it was a pause like he wanted to ask me to stop by after work. We ended the call. I called him on thursday and he answered the phone and said he'll call me back. He was at work and busy and thats the last I heard from him. I left a message for him today and I didn't receive a phone call.
I know I shouldn't be putting alot of stock into this but I'm just confused. Things seemed like they were going ok. Now I got a lot of unanswered what if questions like what if I bored him, what if he like women that gave it up off the bat, what if he's interested in someone else, what if he felt threatened by me? what if?
If all the above are true, then I'm glad that nothing happened between us. But I really like him and wanted to get to know him. I know there other fish in the sea but I pretty sure somebody at some point was at the place wondering why. So maybe he wanted me to be a booty call, but if that's true, wouldn't he asked by now?
2007-03-05 13:22:37 · 20 answers · asked by gloried 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
u a booty call
2007-03-05 13:29:50 · answer #1 · answered by NONAME 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If nothing happened, you're not a booty call. You're only a booty call if you give it up to him.
Congratulations on not giving it up right away, though. At the very least, there can be no guilt or regrets hanging over your head for that.
Without knowing either of you two, I can't really give a good answer. It's possible he was just trying to get you in bed, but it's also possible he just got spooked by something because you two were really hitting it off, it seems. Maybe try to call him one more time, then give him a couple days. If he doesn't get back in touch, then forget about him. You don't need to be bothered with someone who doesn't even have the decency to tell you he'd like to break off whatever was going on.
2007-03-13 09:49:56 · answer #2 · answered by Allo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry im not an english nattive, and there are some words which i can't understand in the american accent, what does booty mean?
but u know what i can tell u smthing about this situation, its true that there are some people who can control their feelings depending to some circumstances they are passing, work, familly, study, are examples, they can arrange their practices by pointing out their priorities, he maybe of that type, so if u can't talk to him as much as u can, maybe a cosequnce of that.
to know him more be simple and just ask him what do he think about u after some other conservations, u urself is not sure that u will like him after a while, u'll not lose anything, if u discovered that u really like him then it deserves this tiny risk it's very simple, and at the same time give him the chance to know u.
i wish that my answer was helpfull, take care
2007-03-13 18:19:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I don't think he is that interested and probably thinks you are a booty call. Because throughout this time span, he didn't ask you on a date or didn't want to have a real conversation face to face just over the phone. Besides, if he was really interested in you, his job would not have gotten in the way.
2007-03-05 21:34:07 · answer #4 · answered by ♥♥Bree♥♥ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
One way or another he may not appreciate you and what you have to offer. Maybe he has something else going on, or maybe he doesn't want a deep relationship and realizes that you do. In any case, all of the above just means you're better off if he doesn't trouble you anymore, since he may not be able to give you what you want and/or deserve. You did well in the sense that you didn't compromise yourself, and you should feel proud of that fact.
2007-03-13 20:58:08 · answer #5 · answered by sustasue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are looking for deep water im the kiddie pool. He may not be a big phone talker. Do not think you were a booty call b/c you gave no booty but you are far away from a girlfriend too. Once he opens up you may hate him.
2007-03-13 01:02:08 · answer #6 · answered by gr8ful4mel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some men want the woman to make the first move,i dont know if he is that way butthere could be a lot of other issues he has.maybe he just wants to not hurt u but he has another girl he is looking at,he might be gay, maybe he has work and school and not enough time,i know some ppl who are virgos that r followers,if u look at the different horescope signs.ask him if he wants to go out and do something and listen to the way he answers ....u can usually tell if someone doesnt want to be around u!good luck!
2007-03-05 21:36:26 · answer #7 · answered by ticktockgal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are overanalyzing the situation. The dude is a loser..He did not call you back. He's "just not that into you." Sorry, but move on to better things and let it go. I know it's hard if you like him, but if he really liked you he would of called to make plans with you, he would of tried to see you and he would of called you and talked to you more than 5 minutes. Don't waste anymore of your precious time thinking about him! Read the book called "He's just not that into you!" It's funny and worth it! It makes you realize that you are better than that guy who dissapears on you! It's happened to me before..Guys are such chicken sh**! LOL
2007-03-05 21:42:23 · answer #8 · answered by asiansmile 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You said nothing happened. So no you are not a booty call.It just looks like things didn't work out. I sorry.
2007-03-12 23:01:52 · answer #9 · answered by Pamela V 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a booty call to me.
2007-03-05 21:30:40 · answer #10 · answered by S.A.M. Gunner 7212 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My coworker and I, say ...
"IF YOU HAVE TO ASK, the answer may be in the question...
Am I a booty call?
I am a booty call?"
2007-03-05 21:40:08 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋