I am married to a wonderful man,he is my first and only love.He is good to me gives me whatever i want,and i love him so much.He also give me a son. That is a really good kid. Then theres this other guy i talk to.He is sweet,makes me laugh,and is good looking.Im not saying i am in love with him.Cause right now im not sure how i feel about him.Im just curious if it is possible to be in love with two people.They are both great guys.I dont want to end my marriage and i dont want to stop talking to this guy.I am very much confused and i dont know what to do.Do you think i should quit talking to this guy? Cause he is my friend and i dont want to lose a friend that i can trust. I call him my best friend so thats what makes it difficult or maybe its not i dont know.
2007-03-05 13:20:44 · 8 answers · asked by sexy gurl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes this sure can be possible BUT it is not the right kind of love you should be feeling though. Basically you need to let go of the guy you are seeing and work on loving your husband only and working on your marriage with him, Yes you should quit talking to this guy as he is not good for you and your marriage at all and he will only destroy your marriage and life down the road.
2007-03-05 13:27:39 · answer #1 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I think it is possible to love 2 men at the same time. You may love different things about each one. Some people believe there is a soul mate for everyone but I don't think we all find one.
Your problem is in keeping the 2 men when they might not like that and you shouldn't have a sexual relationship with the friend! Just ask them! They will say No! Many girls would envy you right now.
But you are married and you have to ask yourself how you would feel if you let the father of your son go and he married another woman! Ah Ha! Now you will know! Just try that on for size!! I think you know the answer.
2007-03-05 21:31:29 · answer #2 · answered by Pamela 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think is possible, to be attracted to 2 different men...But I also think is a choice you make. If you are married to a wonderful man, you shouldn't allow temptation ruin your marriage, if you do, you will suffer, and make others suffer.
I think a marriage involves conscious commitment and LOYALTY to your spouse.
I know it might be confusing, but just think for a moment how would you feel if your husband was in the situation you are...I'm sure you would like him to be firm, loyal, and that he resist the temptation...Please do the same.
STOP talking to that guy (he's a mirage!!!), and focus your energy on your husband, you, and your relationship.
Good Luck!!!
2007-03-05 22:55:59 · answer #3 · answered by PRLadyDama 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's possible but it depends in how you define love or what does the word really meant to you.
You see things the second one posses that you don't see with your current and believe me in saying that the second one will definitely be sweeter because he is trying his best to win you by filling up the empty space.
It is still up to you to prevent your marriage to end. He is not your best friend, you and him are more than friends but less than lovers. The best thing for you to consider your decision is to think of your son, do you really had the guts to remain unfair to him for being acquainted too much with someone other than his Dad?
2007-03-05 21:33:40 · answer #4 · answered by jacksiapo_125 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I don't think that it is possible to be in love with two people at once. Don't leave your marriage I love one man and I will love him for the rest of my life.
2007-03-05 21:35:27 · answer #5 · answered by Butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be love or it could be lust. I think you should stop talking to him as a friend because you might lose interest in your husband and destroy something that's good. And also think about your child.
2007-03-05 21:29:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in love with 2 guys, it is totally possible.
2007-03-05 21:53:34 · answer #7 · answered by Lily and Alex S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lost the friend or lose your husband. in the end that's the only way it can play out.
2007-03-06 13:51:54 · answer #8 · answered by jude D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋