I have a friend who wants to talk to me when she has a problem but I feel like she avoids me when it's the other way around. I don't ask her for anything, just support when I'm feeling blue
2007-03-05 12:26:31 · 6 answers · asked by C C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
No...dump them!!! Real friends are a two way relationship, you give and take. Yes, you each have your good and your bad days, but you should not put yourself in a situation where your not getting out of a friendship what you put into it, it's not fair to yourself.
It's not easy to dump them either, just do it gradually, so you don't hurt them or make it more stressful for yourself.
Good Luck
2007-03-05 13:54:49 · answer #1 · answered by Mjyaluv 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had a friend like that she had the same problems over and over and never wanted to help me when I sad....she actually caused me to be sad so after high school we just stopped talking, you'll find better friends who really care about you. Good luck hope everything works out for you
2007-03-05 20:35:13 · answer #2 · answered by Jackie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went threw the same thing with one of my friends. When she had a situation she had me on the phone for hours talking about it. Then when I need her she was ALWAYS busy or couldn't talk. You just gotta tell her look it seems like you only want my help but when I need you your always coming up with a excuse. If talking to her about that don't work reverse it on her don't help her and see how she likes it. If that don't work leave her alone you can always come on here and get help..GOOD LUCK ;-D
2007-03-05 20:33:01 · answer #3 · answered by shyroc15 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is truly your friend, you should be able to talk to her about this. Friends are hard to find. Take some time to discuss this rationally with her. That means no teenage diva emotion.
2007-03-05 20:29:55 · answer #4 · answered by Blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not really, your friend is just using you!
2007-03-05 20:30:03 · answer #5 · answered by Holly Ann 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO JUST TALK TO HER
2007-03-05 23:55:08 · answer #6 · answered by BaByGiRl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋