My classmates are from older age and I feel they are trying to do psychology on me.?

Question

I just feel pressured and not comfortable enough as when they need something they know that I have they will sit with me and use me, and at the beginning of the semestre no one talked to me and now they want to know my strenghts at education and I don't how they will use experience againstme, I am worried that they are trying to control me and they are.
what to do to not allow them doing to me the things that make me feel unconfortable?

Answer 1

Set up boundaries, be assertive and tell these people you aren't comfortable with their interrogation.......Tell them to back off.....

Answer 2

Don´t u think if they are old ,may they felt unconfortable with young people and they ´re trying to deal with it., maybe aasking your help, not to use you. Be nice with them, and see the results. Try to know them first and then judge, and do what u want to do. Have you any problems with parents or authority?

Answer 3

If anyone is making you miserable report them to a higher authority. Stand up for yourself.

Answer 4

Just tell them if they can't be friends without wanting something then your not interested in being friends.

Answer 5

Explain to them how it makes you feel when they use you. If they can't take a hint and keep on doing it, STOP BEING FREINDS WITH THEM!!!!!

Answer 6

Avoid them.

If they come sit around you, move (pretend you have to go elsewhere).

Don't give in to them.

Answer 7

avoid them at all times. if they can't be your friend with out using you then they are not friends. sit somewhere else.

Answer 8

you made no sense.