I am 14 and I like this girl, I need help please!?

Question

Hello, I am 14 male and I like this girl. We met on my trampoline, she was jumping on it and I went to go jump on it aswell, that's when we became friends. After that day we were best friends. We talked on the phone, we would hang out at eachother houses and we would got to the park and play tennis or something, I thinked she liked me because she always stared at me, I liked her to ALOT. When she went to camp for the whole summer, we send mail. But when she came back, she changed, she wouldnt talk as much, when I chat with her she would answer in 10 min. and we dont hang out anymore. I dont go to the same school but I live across the street, I try to forget her but I can never do it. I know I love her and I want to find out to see if she feels the same way. Can spmeone help?

Should I write a letter to her and mail it even though she is across the street?

Answer 1

You poor thing! Suffering from the sickness that is love!

Listen, honey, you're only 14. You have a LONG life to live. But what good is it living that life if you don't take every chance you have?

What you do is this: plan a romantic evening, a picnic, or something like that. Invite her to it. This will seem less suspicious if it's like her b-day or something like that. And then, when she arrives, tell her why you invited her. Say something like, "Hi (her name)...listen, I know we haven't spoken in a while, but...I am still glad you came...because there's something I've always wanted to tell you: i love you."

You know, just saying that line on IM might be easier if you're shy, also. Whatever you do, you'll know you love her if you actually have the courage to do it.

Answer 2

You probably know her address, so buy a pizza, put a love note under it, and leave it at her door. She might be mad because she wanted to go out with you, but you never made a move on her. I really think you should try to fix the weird problem w/ her, first. I lost a really awesome 14-yr-old gf the same way. I waited two years, now look who I am. Some weird guy that nobody's ever seen before except giving people on Yahoo Answers. You have to gop for her while you still can. If you don't, you'll be stuck wondering "what if" for the rest of your life. trust me, I know.Good Luck, and I hope everything turns out okay. l8ta Crakalaka(that's MY WORD,NOT YOUR"S)

Answer 3

What you have described happens all the time|

People just change as they get older, so that often the same compatibility is not there anymore|

I know that you think that this girl is the only one, but that is not true|

You are only 14 and have an incredible number of years ahead of you|

You will probably meet many others that you will fall in love with, until one day you meet the right one and you *know* she is the right one|

But by that time, you will be old enough for permanency|




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Answer 4

i'm 14 as well, and i thought i had the very same emotions abouth this boy. we went out four times, and we kissed and everything. but when he dumped me, my whole worled shattered. that shouldn't matter. anyways.

you say you love this girl and you want to know if she feels the same way. what i would do is aproach her with the situation and ask her why she has changed and how come you guys aren't as "tight" as you used to be.

then i would tell her about your true emotions. thats the only thing that can solve a problem. rejection hurts, but its the only way to figure out the truth. if she still likes you or even loves you, she might just be too shy to admitt it because she might think you aren't as passionate.

just take the lunge and ask her about your true feelings while telling her your feelings. thats what girls want. i'm 14, and i'm pretty sure i'm no different from this girl. hope you find what your looking for!! :b

Answer 5

maybe she is feeling the same way. a lot of times girls go on the defensive to hide their feelings. maybe she realized she liked you while she was gone and can't face you since. you should just go over and ask her what's going on. you are 14 and feel very strongly, it's not love, it's the chase that's got you saying crazy things! if she were all over you, you wouldn't want her as much, trust me. just ask her what her deal is, you're could be wasting your time waiting to figure out why she's acting like this. if she is mean about it, i'm truly sorry, but you're only 14, you have the rest of your life to find girls that will make your life miserable!!! i hope it works out!

Answer 6

talk to her
hang out with her
maybe call her
if you guys can become good friends again then decide if you still like her
if it seems like she does
or if you just want her to kno that you do act a little different
flirt
maybe hint at liking her
shes probably not stupid & will get the hint, and if shes not too shy she'll say something about it
or you could just come out and tell her
if she doesnt try to just be friends
or else you'll just have to get over her "cold turkey"
(im a 13 yr old girl)

Answer 7

hey i am a girl and i think that she might think that u changed in a way that u don't even know since u know this girl so well and u guys were best friends just talk to her a see how she feels but it will be okay don't worry!

Answer 8

Tell her how you feel just to get it in the open.
Maybe she felt that you 2 didnt have a chance together so she gave up.
Just try telling her how you feel and go from there.

Answer 9

you'll never feel better until you ask her wat's going on, so you'll have to gather the courage. telling her you love her may not be best just yet, but you should at least get an explanation for what's been happening.
you shouldn't torture yourself on what could have been, it's better to know. trust me.

Answer 10

Try to ask her out with mail or tell her how ou fell abaut her and if she doesent like you you could still be frends with her