well some of u heard my question about how a women my mom WAS helping needed help with her huband because of her unborn child she lost the baby do to stress and now her husband wants her back should she go back to him or stay with her mother like she is now she loves him they r still married and she wants to go back badly i think it is a terrible idea i want a public idea
2007-03-05 12:06:46 · 10 answers · asked by missy A 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes you should go back to your husband and marriage in this case. The husband should come first and she needs to be with her husband and try again for a child. Do not give up just because you miscarried and lost a child. She should not stay with her mother anymore. She needs to go back to her marriage now. She is an adult and needs to start acting like it. She also needs counseling and help to get past the pain of losing her child this way. This is very stressful and hard to deal with. She definitley needs to get past the pain of the loss of her child before trying to get pregnant again though and her husband may also need counseling for this loss as well. A loss of a child is really hard to deal with BUT i feel she needs the love and support of her husband during this hard time and not just her mom.
2007-03-05 12:35:09 · answer #1 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, It is hard to stay away from someone you love, but if she does not stay away long enough for him to really learn his lesson than He will take advantage of her willingness to quickly forgive. She should continue to live with her mother and stay away for a good month or two and see if he still wants her then. If he doesn't than he was not really set on changing in the first place. If he still wants her than He probably does really want to change. She should not move in right away if they do decide to work it out. They should meet casually for lunch and such, and then when she is comforatable move thing further. Don't let her give this guy the impression she is a pushover.
2007-03-05 20:15:42 · answer #2 · answered by stick_e_bun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So did he not want her because she was pregnant or was he being an ***? Either way i'm inclined to say don't go back as all the stress just made her lose a baby and that is a very hard thing to forget anyway but losing it because of the stress he was putting her through is something she won't forget.
2007-03-05 20:15:06 · answer #3 · answered by jimmy_chick78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage should always come first.
Having said that did the miscarriage happen because of him or treatment of her?
Only she can get through this and if husband is willing to help her then why not.
Like I said I don't know what really happen but think she should give her a marriage the ground it needs to breath, and be happy one.
2007-03-05 20:12:00 · answer #4 · answered by Free-Lance 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has to do what she thinks is best for herself even if we all know she should stay away from her husband.
If she were somebody I cared about I would tell her they split up for a reason & she had better take a look at the reason or reasons for the break up.
2007-03-05 20:19:51 · answer #5 · answered by ancestorhorse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she needs to make a decision based on what she wants not what other people are telling her.She either loves him and wants to be with him or she doesn't.
2007-03-05 20:15:04 · answer #6 · answered by sweetsmiles69@jennieask-me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Miss you should so you can try for another child
2007-03-05 20:12:08 · answer #7 · answered by TOHOT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't matter what we say she will do what her heart says, But i think she should tell to go to hell.
2007-03-05 20:49:53 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
too long 2 read
taking my points and im outttt
2007-03-05 20:09:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't go back.......
2007-03-05 20:09:29 · answer #10 · answered by cesare214 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋