Is it selfish of me to be a little upset at my best friend b/c she didnt choose me as her maid of honor for her wedding, when I am the one who has been there for here more than ANYONE. I was the only one there when she broke up with her ex a few years ago, & I was the one there when her & her new bf had their scuffles. I was the only one who showed up for her birthday & bought her a present for the past 2 years. I was the only friend who was there when her bf proposed. She had told me that she wanted me to be her maid of honor so we went to shop for wedding stuff. So I was the one who helped her try on & pick her wedding dress & bridesmaids dresses for the wedding. I had invitations picked out for the bridal shower & bachelorette party, then last week she tells me that she is picking this other girl. Is it wrong of me to feel used & pissed off? I'm the one she calls when she is upset-she once called me at 3:30am b/c her & her bf had a fight, I stayed on the phone with her til almost 5
2007-03-05 12:05:23 · 4 answers · asked by artchic1984 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I just feel like I should have the privilage, I asked her today if she had told the girl yet & she said she hasn't and that she hasnt talked to this girl in over a month. She even told me that she doesnt think this girl will even to it or have the time to do anything for the wedding, so i'm thinking "What am I? Invisible? Chop Liver?" Would I be a complete ***** to say " Hey! I deserve the honor to be your maid of honor" to her or am I over-reacting? Honest Anwers PLEASE!!
2007-03-05 12:10:26 · update #1
Wow, that's amazing, and didn't chose you. I don't even know you, and I would definently chose you.
I would ask her why she did not chose you. Don't ask with anger, that will make the situation worse. But ask polietly (if possible during wedding preporations) during a moment when it's not overly hectic, why she never chose you and why the other girl. If you have a chance to persuade her, do so, again, without anger, but some frustration. Just try to find out why or go along with her choice. Those are the only options I see.
2007-03-07 07:35:16 · answer #1 · answered by Amy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like the most unselfish person and a perfect friend. If she can't see that then maybe she doesn't deserve your friendship. But before we go jumping to recking what might be a great friendship over a miss understanding you better talk to her first. My suggestion is to call her at 3 A.M. and talk till 5
2007-03-13 10:37:50 · answer #2 · answered by tarakootenay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not over reacting, you should be a little upset. just ask her why you would choose this other girl over me when you told me i was going to be your maid of honor?
2007-03-13 04:45:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she doesnt deserve ur honor!
2007-03-12 23:28:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋