what should you do if...?

Question

you were 32-y-o woman who is divorcing, stuck in a business with potential but that barely pays the bills, no family in the country and no friends in the state since you moved in not long ago.
I would love to go for therapy but it is either my electrical bill or going to therapy.
I have the beach 4 blocks away, but not even the beach makes me smile anymore. I love my business but i cannot concentrate in that now.
I do not know what do to, my husband is moving out the 15 of this month and I just don't know how can i am going to deal with the grief. I ask myself what is worse if been unhappily married or dealing with all this unbearable loneliness.
I need advice, i need some help. Do you know of any inexpensive place in Miami where i can find psychological help. All the help i can afford is you guys. Thanks.

Answer 1

being alone is better than a bad marriage. believe that. I'm not sure about Miami but look in the phone book in the front pages it will say things about low cost or no cost therapy. also call the welfare office ask the receptionist about therapy for low cost or no cost they should be able to help you. you can also call therapist in your area and some not all will work out arrangements with you. good luck to you i hope this helps.

Answer 2

Me personally I think I would see what options are available back home, where your friends, and family are if that is a possibility. Why stay somewhere where nothing matters to you? Besides a job? Sell the company and the house, and start over where you want to live. It is going to be hard to get over the divorce, but in time you will. But living where there is no support system is going to be harder, even with a therapist. Wishes of Happiness for you!!!

Answer 3

Ok, is there no one in the business that could share the house and split the bills, just until you get on your feet? You can have all the material things in the world and not smile, your heart has to be happy to smile, and right now it isn't. Maybe you should take on a second job to fill the void of lonliness as well as finanacial. but you know you can always talk to us.... we listen and some of us give really good advise......good luck

Answer 4

My heart goes out to you. I do not know what you believe in, but I`m a Christian so I have to answer you out of what I believe. I will not lecture you how divorce is wrong that`s your business but I will tell you that Jesus will love you when it seems like nobody cares. I have gone through divorce myself. I would suggest you find a church family to care about you, and before you know it you will be the one comforting someone else. It`s amazing how when you let God heal you he will then in turn use you to help others heal. Now that theraphy, And it`s free all you have to do is ask for it. I`m living proof. God bless I`m praying for you.

Answer 5

Is it really over?
Are you happy that it's coming to an end?
Is this job worth the headache that is really getting you down?

Is this job one of the prime reasons your husband is unhappy?

If you got rid of it could you and husband work out your problems like an adult?

The real question I reading is what has happen to your life.

Well let me sum it up for you, your trying to establish your identity and this job of your is part of that, witch is okey ,but you lost the thing the job was expose to help you with "your Marriage"

The Question you should be asking yourself is will this be healthy for myself, my marriage and our future!

Your marriage and family should always be number 1. Everything else Number2, 3 ,4 and so on.

You lost site of your goals and the marriage was uprooted.

Can you find it in yourself to get husband to give both of you another chance?

I hope you can work out something for your sake, and remember it's marriages job to make you happy, it's your job to make your marriage a happy one.

Now for help if your near Miami go to university physic. program and ask to get in on student help.

This will get you Physic. help without having to pay or little pay .
Good luck.