I think the fact that I love my husband/boyfrined doesn't necessary make they feel loved. Do you agree? If so, what do you do to make them feel loved and special? Even with children, with two jobs, with different interests to balance?
2007-03-05 11:37:10 · 9 answers · asked by zhifa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i write notes to him on the bathroom mirror with lipstick that say love you. while he is sleeping so in the morning he See's it. i leave notes in his truck, i leave him my made up coupons that say one night of what ever you want. you get the point. he likes it, he now looks for the coupons all the time and when he comes home and has found one he has a huge smile on his face,look what i got, I'm claiming it tonight. it's fun. he appreciates the thought that i even thought of doing it in the first place. now he leaves me notes in my car and on the mirror try it.
2007-03-05 11:45:03 · answer #1 · answered by sassy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make special time for him and only him (weekends or whenever is convenient for the both of you), go out to dinner with him, send him a card at work with a little note from you, tell him you love him genuinely, talk, walk, just do something that will allow you to bond and feel closer to eachother. What did you guys used to do when you were 'new'? OR if you have kids, do something as a family so that all of you have fun. I know it may be easier said than done, but if you don't try, how will you ever know?
2007-03-05 11:50:19 · answer #2 · answered by Tatu 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He either has to be a husband or a boyfriend. He can't be both. I would suggest figuring out what your status is first. Being that you have children I hope that you are married because if not that is your first of many problems.
Good luck!
2007-03-05 11:41:13 · answer #3 · answered by McyD2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a husband AND boyfriend? Hmmm...wonder why they don't feel loved....
2007-03-05 11:42:11 · answer #4 · answered by behr28 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You can first of all make them feel loved by having just one. I pray that was a typo.
2007-03-05 11:39:28 · answer #5 · answered by JELLE 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do you love one husband and one boyfriend or what?you might want to specify this more clearly.
2007-03-05 11:42:36 · answer #6 · answered by sweetsmiles69@jennieask-me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
saying "i love you" everyday to remind them that you do actually love them. bring them flowers or candy from time to time. the little romantic things you do can show that you really love them.
2007-03-05 11:53:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
give them what they want - let them give you the 3rd input
2007-03-05 11:41:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
adjusting
2007-03-05 11:40:00 · answer #9 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the dr. ruth answer: become his sex toy
the freudian answer: become his mother
2007-03-05 11:42:25 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋