Do you know of any websites (that are not pronographic) that maybe give some instruction on this. I have never done it before, but thought I might spice up our love life.
2007-03-05 11:22:34 · 20 answers · asked by hey.goodlookin 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
also what should I wear, I am kinda nervus.
2007-03-05 11:24:58 · update #1
try this
http://www.funadvice.com/q/how_to_give_a_lap_dance
what to wear??? try a sexy school girl outfit (thats what i have)...
2007-03-05 11:38:48 · answer #1 · answered by girl_of_your_dreams_1331 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can start by asking some of your girlfriends if they have experience with it - they may be willing to help you out.
You can also try going to a strip club and talking to one of the girls there, maybe pay for a lapdance as an instructional session. I'm sure they'd appreciate having a laugh and helping another chick instead of some greasy fat guy.
Youtube.com may actually have some instructional or helpful videos - at least something that may give you an idea.
Specialty romance/sex stores probably sell how-to videos on the subject.
2007-03-05 11:34:16 · answer #2 · answered by Mike K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I danced for my husband , i didn't need no drinks or video. Costumes yes a must and made me some dance songs on a CD and some pumps. Remember don't fall like the lady on True Lies!
2007-03-05 11:36:58 · answer #3 · answered by Nisa 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I need you to talk to my g.f....
First off, there is no 'right' way. Confidence is key! Get into something hot and just let your self go. I think also setting the mood would help. Candles, some wine and possibly some music.....
2007-03-05 11:28:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe Carmen Electra has a workout DVD that she ties in lap dancing with. You should give that a try! Good for you for being sassy for your husband.
Good luck!
2007-03-05 11:30:06 · answer #5 · answered by McyD2 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wear something revealing that can be pulled off easily- you don't want him struggling to get off leather pants. and no website can truly tell you what your hubby likes and wants. go with the flow and do whatever comes into your head. as long as you're the one he's with, he'll be happy.
2007-03-05 11:28:50 · answer #6 · answered by fab expert101 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is a work out video that shows you how to be more like an exotic dancer http://www.aerobicstriptease.com/store/customer/index.php and as far as what to wear pick something see through from www.victoriasecret.com
2007-03-05 11:45:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't learn from a website. do some research and get a professional to really teach you. some really good ones are willing to teach (fees may be high but worth it). as far as wearing, she may be willing to be your advisor too.
2007-03-05 11:27:35 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apologies for the cop-out, but Wikipedia works for me. Just check the first paragraph of this http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lap_dance article, and use your imagination.
2007-03-05 11:27:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
http://www.funadvice.com/q/how_to_give_a_lap_dance
http://magazines.ivillage.com/cosmopolitan/experts/baroness/qas/0,12750,166930_286099,00.html
This one has pics on the page....a little racy but fully clothed:
http://www.weird-websites.com/ColtnessChessClub/LapDancingTips.htm
Try getting some videos that are out like Striptease with Demi Moore
2007-03-05 11:32:09 · answer #10 · answered by Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try this:
http://www.lapdanceunleashed.com/
http://www.metroplanners.com/coupleslapdancing.html
2007-03-05 11:27:42 · answer #11 · answered by bcampesi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋