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See here's the thing, my girlfriend and i broke up a couple months ago. But once we broke up her best friend dumped her boyfriend to ask me out but i said no because i though it was to early but then the boyfriend she dumped asked out my x-girlfriend and she said yes. Then a couple weeks ago they broke up, and then i realized that im still in love with her. Now i dont know wat to do. Im afraid that she will reject me??? Someone please help me!!!!

2007-03-05 11:06:34 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

19 answers

Move on. Ya'll have burned your bridges with the 'fruitbasket turnover thing'.

Too much drama. Why do people insist on creating so much drama! Life is short. Love is hard.

2007-03-05 11:09:43 · answer #1 · answered by SouthernGrits 5 · 0 0

JC, how old are you?? are in the mid 20's? or teenagers, your problem is not really that bad yet, if you look at it, people do fall in love, and adfter a while they will end up breaking up. You said that you still love your ex-girlfriend, did you found out your feelings because she went out with your friend's ex-boyfriend?
This are just one of those that will come and go, call your ex-girlfriend, talk to her, tell her how you feel, do not tell her no story about other things,just justify your thought and feelings and if she respond to you, then you will find out how she feels for you and where the two of you stand,.......don't ask your friends for some advice because all of us can give you different advice and it will just confuse you. Follow your heart, and go from there you are your own person now and you know how you feel, express it and show it, never hide it...................good luck!!

2007-03-05 19:25:31 · answer #2 · answered by islandgirl06 5 · 0 0

That was more drama than you let in a whole month of soap operas - WOW!

Well if you still have feelings for her then tell her. What is the worst that would happen - she says no. You would not be any worse off than you are now. If you never take a chance and you never tell her then you will never know. She just might feel the same way you do.

Good luck

2007-03-05 20:32:42 · answer #3 · answered by chanajane3 2 · 0 0

Ok so your in love with your ex-girlfriend, tell her that you are in love with her and who mknows maybe you might hear what you want to hear her say. And if you don't ever tell her you will never know and you will always wonder what would have happend if you would of told her that you loved her and maybe she broke up with that other guy because she might still have feelings for you and is probably confused or just doesn't know what to do, so step up and tell her once you tell her you will be glad you told her.

Good Luck!!!

2007-03-05 19:15:27 · answer #4 · answered by Nessa 2 · 0 0

Wow thats very weird. Small world then huh?
well you should think about how the relationship will work.
If she dont love or like you anymore there's no use if you ask her out again. You and her should stay friend at least but if she dont want to then its her lost. Not yours because she's missing on someone who really wanna be with her.

2007-03-05 19:10:49 · answer #5 · answered by honeyy 3 · 0 0

You should tell your girlfriend how you feel regardless of what you think she will say you owe it to her and your self. Remember everything happens for a reason and plus that is crazy! You should tell her that your still in luv wit her and get back together it won't be as simple as it sounds but still try much luck!

2007-03-05 19:15:09 · answer #6 · answered by Patricia T 1 · 0 0

Love should be unconditional. If it is meant to be, it will be. Rejection is never an easy thing, however, follow your heart, and be honest with yourself as well. If you want to be with her, express that, if she rejects you, at least you know you were honest with your feelings and do not have to go through life wondering if you made a mistake by never trying to get back with her. Believe in yourself and follow your heart, if it is meant to be it will be!

2007-03-05 19:12:36 · answer #7 · answered by Wellness4Me 1 · 0 0

I know exactly what you are going through.
Try talking to her.
See if you can become friends and then move up. Maybe she feels the same. You never know. So just talk to her. But my advice is that it's face to face.
Good Luck!

2007-03-05 19:26:53 · answer #8 · answered by Nicole 2 · 0 0

Be the rock for her. Don't be a needy, whiny, girly man who's all "in love." Be an honorable, trustworthy man who sticks to his word and is true to himself. If you do that you won't need to say a word to her. She'll let you know.

FP

2007-03-05 19:10:52 · answer #9 · answered by F. Perdurabo 7 · 0 0

Just take that chance. If you are too chicken (like me to ask a guy out)then just dont and flirt with her and she will relize she likes you also!

2007-03-05 19:16:25 · answer #10 · answered by []Aspen[] 1 · 0 0

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