I am really confused because I don't know if I am lesbian or bisexual or just straight... I am 21 years old and since I was very young women has turned me on, sometimes I use to watch movies with lesbians having sex or just kissing and I get very very wet! and I masturbate myself imagining myself having sex with other female. When I was in high school I had a female friend and we were together most of the time and people made jokes saying that we were married. Once she invited me to her house and I slept with her and when I woke up she was looking at me, her face was very close to mine but nothing happened.
But when I see a naked man I feel nothing! but if I see a black man naked it turns me on (I am white), in fact right now I am in love with a black man and he turns me on. What do you think? I am lesbian?
2007-03-05 11:02:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anna 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You're bisexual but that's cool.. You just like what you like and nothing is wrong with that! Nobody is really pushing you to classify what you are anyway!!
2007-03-05 11:12:42 · answer #1 · answered by sweetmindangel 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you are bi. Try being with both sexes or see who
A. Turns you on sexually
B. Turns you on emotionally.
I am the same way though. I love looking at women, but I get attracted to girly looking guys. More often though-I fall for the women.
2007-03-05 21:13:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you're a bisexual woman. It's nothing new. You express a liking for women's bodies and you want to have sex with women. You also want to have sex with black men. Again, nothing the world hasn't seen before. Relax and be content knowing your sexuality.
2007-03-05 19:08:50 · answer #3 · answered by Jenny J 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, with personal experience and infact being a lesbian, if you really like this girl and feel sexually/emtionally/physically attracted to her, and you think she feels the same way, you should go for it. But if your feelings are stronger for this guy, then sure go for it. But I have to warm you, don't get a guys sexual feelings mixed with his emotional feelings. Thats the positive thing about being a lesbian, girls feel emotionally AND sexually. (:
2007-03-05 20:44:16 · answer #4 · answered by brunettesxrock93 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am thinking maybe that you are bi if men can turn you on. it may be that you can have feelings for both men and women. as long as you love the person that you are with, there is no real reason to care what gender they are.
2007-03-05 19:09:35 · answer #5 · answered by Minerva 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you're bisexual.
2007-03-06 01:24:47 · answer #6 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you are attracted to the person rather than their specific gender... whether gender exists, though, is a completely different question
2007-03-06 00:27:46 · answer #7 · answered by royalt63 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...ask yourself this. can you picture yourself with a guy or girl more...who do you get more nervous around... who do you check out if you go somewhere [mall, etc...] who do you hangout with more, guys or girls?
if anything....you might be bisexual... but who knows
2007-03-05 20:07:17 · answer #8 · answered by kangball15 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your Bi-sexual..... its that simple...... You a double dipper..... just pick a side and stay there.... :)
MUCH LOVE TO YA!!
2007-03-05 20:09:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's wrong with the real thing.
2007-03-05 19:12:56 · answer #10 · answered by Kevinrodney D 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋