i have been losing my bestfriend a little bit each day, and i miss him so much its not even human. we went out before because we loved eachother, but we mistaked this kind of love. it wasnt the "dating kind of love" if you get what im saying. we were just extremly close. well this past month has been enough to realize that i need him back in my life. ive tried talking to him but he wont help me. his advice was: "just forget about me, think of all the bad things about me and you'll be fine without me". but thats the worst advice ive ever been given. ive apologized for the past and he forgave me... he just doesnt want to be my friend. i love him and i just told him. we talked about it, but im not sure how he feels. how much time should i give him to think this over? what if he doesnt think about it at all? well what if he doesnt talk to me again? he blocked me on instant messanger because he doesnt want to deal with this ****. can i have a GUYS point of view on this? what is he thinking?
2007-03-05 10:58:53 · 4 answers · asked by jessica 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sounds like he loves you, how? because he's afraid to talk to you about it. i think he's trying to fight it and forget about it all together. guys are hard to figure out sometimes, give him time to breathe and he'll come around and call you. he just doesn't want to show how he feels probably cause he's scared. i don't think it has to do with your past together i think it's more about because you guys had something together. if it wasn't a big deal to him he would just forget about it ans still be friends with you and let it go, but obviously he's hiding something, like his feelings for you. especially cause he knows you love him and need him. he's afraid of loosing you again so staying away from you and talking to you helps? no but in a guys mind it does, so he doesn't feel the need to be desperate and for you to not want him. he's afraid you will not want him eventually.his words to you were more like a cry out for saying "go and find someone else, and see if you will love them, cause if you do then i will not still love you" he just wants to see if you will find someone else and forget about him, but don't cause you have a good guy.
good luck!!!
2007-03-05 11:12:57 · answer #1 · answered by ♥!BabyDoLL!♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget these things
2007-03-05 19:05:35 · answer #2 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is gay
2007-03-05 19:12:11 · answer #3 · answered by booge 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did something go really wrong when you to were dating? thats prabobly wat is wrong
2007-03-05 19:04:55 · answer #4 · answered by .:*MusicIsMyLife*:. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋