I've tried joining clubs and going to random events, but I still hang out mostly alone. How do I make new friends?
2007-03-05 10:25:46 · 4 answers · asked by Lola 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It sounds like you have trust issues. Sit down and write your life story. Be honest, it's for you only. You will probably find that you have a history of relationships (family, etc.) that did not meet your expectations and or desires. Or perhaps you will find that you have set your expectations so high that no many will "rise to the occasion".
2007-03-05 10:35:22 · answer #1 · answered by Tauheedah W 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start with your room mate. If that doesn't work, move on to your hall mates, then dorm mates. Outside the residence hall, find someone in your class who is not in a hurry to leave for another class or another activity. See if you can hang around a bit and just chat. A female is more approachable than a male. Start with one and see what happens . . .
2007-03-05 18:30:12 · answer #2 · answered by JADE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to talk to people and be friendly. Invite them to hangout ...make the first move, dont be so shy if you want friends bad enough. But choose your friends carefully, as some will stab you in the back...you can never be too careful. But, most of all....to make friends....you must be yourself!! Thats all you can do...if they dont like it, find new friends! Good luck
2007-03-05 18:29:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
start a new hobby that involves other people, you will find yourself enjoying hanging out and also making friends with people with similar interests.. you will already have something in common
2007-03-05 18:28:54 · answer #4 · answered by facelessangels 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋