my friend just got a boyfriend and im happy for her except im worried and I dont know if she is going to act diffrent or ignor me and my friend.What if she gets dumped and she takes it out on me and my friends. Please help
2007-03-05 10:20:57 · 11 answers · asked by Stubby hashbrown 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Come on you are all telling mee the same thing
2007-03-06 15:44:42 · update #1
well talk to her and tell her your concerns . she's your friend you should have an idea of how she might be now that's she has a bf. also if she's a real friend then instead of taking it out on you she will come for you for comfort in case she does get dumped .
2007-03-05 10:25:28 · answer #1 · answered by asphyxia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
until that happens dont worry. she wont ignore you if u dont let her. but u need to understand that she does have someone new in her life and that he is going to be hanging out with him sometimes too. but she should still have u n her time, and if she is a good friend she wont leave you and your friend hanging all the time for him.just tell her now how you feel about this situation and your concerns. And then if he does dump her or hurts her, u need to be a supportive friend and help her through it!u and ur friend will be ok as long as ur friend is fair about the time she shares and spends with both u and him!and if that becomes like a problem and she is being totally unfair about everything, then u will have to tell her how you feel!she still might be learning how to balence a boyfriend and friends, so there might be some bumps but itll be all good.
2007-03-05 18:28:36 · answer #2 · answered by ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might ignore you a little but she is still ur friend and if she gets dumped and gets mad at u give her some space in a while it will seem like it didn't really happen also if she gets dumped and she does not take it out on you it will be a little hard at first and she will need ur support
2007-03-05 18:26:36 · answer #3 · answered by Sofia L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry nothing will change ....I hope ;) .... even if she changes you be yourself and when she is over the BF thing she will be back!! In the mean time get a BF yourself so you will be busy too. Or make a couple of new friends to fall back on if ya friend ignores you completely
2007-03-05 18:26:22 · answer #4 · answered by lynette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if she is a true friend, she shouldn't treat you any different.
And if they break up as a good friend she will come to lean on your shoulder.....
My best friend/ kinda sister made this agreement, we will never let a guy come between us....
Hope everything works out.
2007-03-05 18:24:48 · answer #5 · answered by circusgirl322 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's a good friend, she would never ignore you. And if she gets dumped, then she should be looking towards you, not for agrument, but for comfort.
2007-03-05 18:24:20 · answer #6 · answered by Kai-Kai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she starts acting like that, confront her. And make sure to tell her that she can keep the BF, but tell her you miss her. I hope she doesn't hurt you, and if she does, she's not areally good friend!
2007-03-05 18:25:13 · answer #7 · answered by Selleniah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's a good friend, she'll balance it out. You need to help her if she goes through hard times.
2007-03-05 18:23:30 · answer #8 · answered by Eden 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg that happened to my ex best friend....she left us for her boyfriend...in the end he cheated on her then she would try to hang out with us but we would ignore her...
2007-03-05 18:25:15 · answer #9 · answered by ღ 3SA sL33PY CaNT B3 sToPP3dღ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give her some space, then she will come around!
2007-03-05 18:24:06 · answer #10 · answered by jacob a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋