I have a cousin who is a year younger than me , since childhood we have been inseparable.The issue is that for about a year now i have not talked to her ,because she's changed everytime i would call she had to go someplace or sometimes her mom (my aunt) would say she wasn't home.Even one time she answered and as soon as i said hello she hung up on me.I have asked her what did i do and she says nothing i miss her very much , but am afraid to call her i'm afraid she'll reject me or worse.What do i do how can i get back that special sisterhood we had.
2007-03-05 10:15:59 · 5 answers · asked by seialie (pronounced sally) 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I can't ask my aunt becuase we do not get along due to my mother who is her sister.I don't know if her mom is putting things in her head, but i would think she'd know better than to believe them.
2007-03-05 10:24:22 · update #1
Well, there's nothing you can do, just stop calling her and leave her alone. She can't see you right now, or take you for granted because maybe she's busy w/ her new friends or work etc. Remember in every relationships giving space is important. Let her miss you move on, she will be eback in the right time. Don't force it or else you gonna hurt yourself. Let it come to you. Keep yourself busy. I know she is your cousin, but just leave her alone for now. Talk to her that what ever happen oyur there for her and that you love her. I hope this help.. God Bless. Don't worry to much, this is not the end... God Luck
2007-03-05 10:30:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not a problem with you and your aunt and shouldn't be treated as so. The problem is with your cousin and she is the only one you should talk about it to. Just ask strait out Whats Up?? If there is other family problems, you may have to wait them out. Your cousin sounds really special to you. Don't give up.
2007-03-05 18:27:29 · answer #2 · answered by Kimmie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get her email address or write her a letter. Tell her your feelings and let her know that even though your mom and hers are not getting along right now that you still would like to have a relationship with her...
2007-03-05 18:43:21 · answer #3 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your Aunt about it. Ask her what is going on with your cousin.
2007-03-05 18:20:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
totally go talk to your aunt...but then maybe she just grew apart from you and doesn't want you to see the "real" her anymore because she has changed so much.
2007-03-05 18:23:02 · answer #5 · answered by princess_anne_2009 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋