Im in depression. But i've been praying for God to help me through this with someone I can seriosuly trust and help me through everything. I think he came. I don't like this guy, like love...just as a friend. One day I stood up for him because everyone was making fun of him and calling him a napkin and wiping their hands on him. Then I stood up for him. Ever since we've been emailing eachotehr and have been friends. I think hes my help, and He says im his. Do you think so? Is this a good thing? Or do I need to find a guy that I LOVE? and that I would marry?
2007-03-05 09:49:26 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
There is nothing wrong with having a good friend.
2007-03-05 09:53:28 · answer #1 · answered by computerguy103 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes... it is a good thing he came along, no one can have too many friends. God works is amazing and different ways. Don't rush these kinds of things.... take your time and pray about it. If you don't love him don't tell him you do be truthful that is the best policy! Don't just walk up and say " I DON'T LOVE YOU!"..though only if he brings it up and you don't fell the same way.( If he is a good friend he should understand. You guys still can be friends and when my cousin got married, her friend.. a guy... was a good dicerner of the good choices and the bad guys! Stay close because friends are important in all walks of life... they make life fun and intresting!
Good Luck and stay safe (:
P.S> I'll pray for you... he might be the one just wait and pray about it!
2007-03-05 17:58:42 · answer #2 · answered by faista 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter if you don't LOVE him now. Everyone could use good friends. Even if it may one day grow into love, don't expect too much. The important part is that you are friends, and you helped each other. You may both move on to find lovers, and go out as couples, and have fun, and be surrogate "aunt" and "uncle" to each other's kids, or you may end up married. Who knows? Just be glad that your prayers were answered, and you found a true friend.
2007-03-05 18:27:17 · answer #3 · answered by It's Just My Opinion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly i think he is like that b/c you helped him and so he is trying to repay you for that reason for helping him by being your friend and emailing each other and trying to get together if yall are at all......but since you were praying to God about someone that could help you.....God may not of put that person that you wanted in front of you to help you but he put someone in front of you that might understand you, listen to you, help you anyway he can, or him try to keep you out of trouble......i see it that way. But God puts people in front of us and we may not know why but later on down your life then you might understand why he put him there in front of you in the end or in couple of years, months, days or wks.
But if i were you i would take the guy that is in front of you and that you helped as a friend then go from there and try and talk to him about it when you can and if you can when the time is right. He may see you as his guardian angel for helping him and so in turn he is helping you and you are not looking for those signs. Just take a step back and look at the big picture between you and him and then you will know. Trust me it has happened to me more than once in the situation that you are in right now. Just watch, listen and wait.
2007-03-05 17:57:49 · answer #4 · answered by fryeindustries2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you both came into each others lifes just at the right time:) God works in mysterious ways remember;) I think that friendship is the MOST important thing in any relationship...and who knows...it might develop into something more serious? I would just keep things the way they are for now, you're not committed to anything..and if in time someone else comes along, you'll know it when you meet him. But don't just let your new friend fade into the background:)
Best of Luck!
2007-03-05 17:57:31 · answer #5 · answered by kandl722 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Lord sends people to us for many reasons. Sometimes for only a season. Love is un-deniable… it either is or it is not. You won't have to ask anyone if you are in love with this man. My advice to you is to take it slow if he is for you and you for him it will be plainly revealed. One day you'll wake up and feel you can't see yourself in a life without him. But remember that you find comfort in the Lord. Keep praying to God daily. Don’t keep asking him for the same thing but pray and thank him for this friend and all the blessing he has giving you. If you do this God will keep you safe and warn you of trouble to come. Just don't ignore or get wrapped up in the moment and forget who is the true blessing here... take care of you.
God Bless.
2007-03-05 18:05:31 · answer #6 · answered by Sunshine4u2njoy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a good thing for a freind. If he comes out and says he loves you, don't say it back unless you really mean it. It's better to wait until you really feel that way before you say it, or you could ruin a great relationship. Just keep praying and God will tell you if he is the one. don't rush into anything, just be patient. But that is great that you have a way to handle the depression.
2007-03-05 17:57:51 · answer #7 · answered by babigurl34 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't jump the gun..
you only have just become friends...
nurture and enjoy the friendship.
If it goes somewhere great..
If it does not, you still have a friend.
You don't NEED to find a guy you can love.
That will happen all by itself, when you least expect it.
Go Live your life and enjoy it..
Have Fun... its not a sin.
God does not grant wishes.
Seek out you own true path
Follow it wisely and with good intent
and your god will be at your side.
2007-03-05 18:04:14 · answer #8 · answered by Harly Q 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good Friends sometimes come from the most unlikely people. Relationships do not have to be physical as bf/gf....sometimes a good friend is just that a friend.... I've had my best friend for almost 40 years....we met in grade school and as ironic as it sounds we became best friends because we stood up for each other without fail.... Keep in mind that good friends can rely on each other no matter what....they can tell them their deepest darkest secrets without fear of reprisal....Keep e-mailing each other keep talking to each other.... the more you learn about each other the safer you should feel.
2007-03-05 18:04:47 · answer #9 · answered by Odyssey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's awesome to find someone to help you out of depression, so stay with this guy for a while, he sounds like a great friend, so maybe he will end up being who you want to marry. Just ask yourself what you want in a husband, then see how many categories he fills!
Good Luck! God Bless!
-And stay OPTIMISTIC!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-05 17:55:43 · answer #10 · answered by Wishful Writer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is great! No you don't necessarily need to find husband material just yet. Enjoy your friendship with this nice guy. You can love him even if you don't like him like a boyfriend. Love him the same way that God loves you!
2007-03-05 17:53:18 · answer #11 · answered by Revelation S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋