2007-03-05 09:48:51 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
easy. sit them down make them some coffee and tell them straight out, mom dad I made a horrible mistake and I'm pregnant.
2007-03-05 09:51:43 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ღαмαиdα♥ღ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents when they're not doing anything at all. Just sat them down and start explaining what happen. What you did was wrong but peoples make mistakes. Like the condom broke by accident etc. I'm almost 17 pregnant also. I was so nervous and scared of what my mom will say when i told her that im pregnant. She took it very well than what i really expected her to say. My mother right now is excited to be a grandmother even though she told us she doesnt want to be a young grandmother but what can she do.
2007-03-05 10:53:33 · answer #2 · answered by April 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are definately going to need to tell them sooner then later. They are probably going to be very upset with the circumstance, but you will need to give them time to process the idea. Don't forget at 15 you are probably still a little girl in their eyes, so it's going to be very hard for them to come to terms with the idea that their "baby" is going to be having a baby of her own.
If you are too afraid to tell your parents in person, you can always write them a letter explaining your situation. This is definately a less confrontational alternative, and may help ease you into a discussion about it later on.
Ultimately however you choose to go about it, you MUST tell them. The longer you leave it the harder it will be for you to bring it up, and the more upset/hurt they will be that you hid it.
I wish you the best of luck sweety! I know this is definately a diffucult time in your life, but tons of women have been there before you and they made it out just fine :)
2007-03-05 10:04:40 · answer #3 · answered by leenajoyce 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like the commercial "Just do it"!!! If you need to bring a friend or other family member along who knows and can be there for support should your parents blow up!!! They may get angry but try to remember that it is better for them to be angry at you & still love you that to not care about you!!! They might be angry because they care about you... Think about what you want and try to come up with a plan, first on your own and then with your parents...If they see you are actually thinking & learning from this more than likely they will go easier on you.
Many friends of mine got pregnant way too early, one even as young as 14! So, though I have not personally been through this I have watched several of my friends deal with this!
2007-03-05 10:02:28 · answer #4 · answered by Boppysgirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the first place, you should have used protection. Since it is too late, you need to sit both your parents down together and no other family memebers around. You need to start out telling your parents that you made a poor decision and your in trouble. Tell them your are sorry and you didn't aim for it to happen. Then tell them that your are pregnant. Admitt your made a mistake and that your sorry. A little crying will help too. I mean real tears not fake.
2007-03-05 10:00:38 · answer #5 · answered by kyfrog3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I told my parents their reactions were a lot different than I thought, they were really calm about it and we talked about what we'd do and now everything's turned out really great. I told my mom first, and I had my boyfriend here with me at the time. Then you can tell your dad or if you're lucky she'll tell him for you. It's going to be hard and I know you're nervous but think about it this way, the longer you wait the worse it's going to be because they'll think you hid it from them and I'm sure you want what's best for your baby so it'd be best to tell them now.
2007-03-05 10:14:19 · answer #6 · answered by MamaD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come out the closet gurl!! No but for real dont be too scared they cant attack u cause u pregnant just said u made a bad choice and besides i know a gurl who is 15 and her daughter is 2 you will get through this - God Bless
2007-03-05 09:57:48 · answer #7 · answered by jam j 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your parents needs to know so you can get to a good Dr. Just go to them tell them that you are pregnant its not the end of the world. Yes they might be upset a little but they will get over it I promise. I know for a fact it happen to me .
2007-03-05 09:56:56 · answer #8 · answered by candy m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, that is wrong. Ever heard of condoms? To tell your parents that they are about to become grandparents, use reverse phsycology. Ask them what would you think if a girl my age got pregnant? Then whatever they say tell them that that girl is you. They might yell at you, but these are the consequences and you are going against God's will. Tell them to meet your boyfriend, so that they approve.
P.S. GOOD LucK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-05 10:07:15 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was 15 when i found out i was pregnant and im 20 now my lil girl is 4 now frist we told his mom then we called my mom and told her she need to come over because we have somthing to tell u she came over and i took a preg test and came out + she was mad but then i had to tell my dad that was HELL he was mad at me for 2 weeks but he got over it and went with me to teh dr to find out what i was having he was happy to find out he was have a grandpas girl he loves he with all his heart and when u tell u parents let them know u still aregoing to go to school and get a job to take care of the baby the ? is where is the father and dose he know and his family know its not going to be easy yes ur mom and dad may be there what when u wanna go out u can i know im a single mom her dad has not been in her life for 3 years will take care and good luck if u wanna talk u can email me at babydoll694617192002@yahoo.com byebye
2007-03-05 11:17:33 · answer #10 · answered by babydoll694617192002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest. Sit them down and tell them...
Congratulations on being adult enough to even consider telling your parents...it's going to be a big job and you're going to need they're help.
Try not to stress out too much...do it as soon as possible and get it over with...stress is not good for the baby.
Remember...you're parents have been there too...and who knows...they may surprise you.
2007-03-05 09:58:01 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋