It all started about over 3 months ago, I had a crush of this fit girl but rejected me twice which made me felt bad. And it's becuase of that which made me slapped her butt, soon her cousin and her sister came and threatened me which made it worse.
I've been sending her emails to forgive me, she replied back which made me thought she did. But when I saw her, she shouted out "Stupid man." That didn't land a blow at all, but I've sent a few more, first to find me so we can talk, the second to forget it and the third to go again.
But I didn't know that I was harrasing her then until my tutor told me that I was. Now everytime I pass by her or her friends, I just feel like crap.
Like as if I would want to cut myself to get rid of that problem. What can I do? How can I end this stupidness? How can I talk to her and start over if people are just gonna discourage me? I need help lads and lasses.
2007-03-05 09:19:06 · 10 answers · asked by cboylegend 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
once she's gone she's gone your better off without her
2007-03-05 23:21:44 · answer #1 · answered by THUG LIFE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself a simple question....
Who's problem is this? Her's or YOURS!!!!
DING,DING, DING.......WHAT DOES HE WIN JOHNNY???
If she is still accepting your emails, (not sure I would be), write and APOLOGIZE, ADMIT BLAME, ADMIT FAULT, ask her forgiveness, (which she may or may not give, but ask), and
PROMISE TO NEVER CONTACT HER AGAIN
DON"T TRY TO TALK TO HER!!! IF she chooses to talk to you, BE POLITE!!! DON"T TOUCH HER, FOR ANY REASON!!!!
Do you have a counselor?
If you're not careful, you'll end up with a parole agent.
Her friends think you're a moron. You've given them every reason to. LEAVE THEM ALONE TOO!!!
If any of them initiate a conversation, apply the same rule as talking to her.
You've dug yourself a monumental hole of biblical proportions. Stop trying to talk yourself out of it, admit you're wrong and HOPE for forgiveness.
Finally, to answer your initial question....You can't "start over"
Good Luck
2007-03-05 09:46:39 · answer #2 · answered by spam_free_he_he 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give up on trying to mend things. The best is to forgive yourself. Things pass, they really do. Sounds like you're only a kid. Don't hurt yourself and if you're thinking of that, call someone. Love yourself and let your past be the past. Good luck.
2007-03-05 09:24:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like a right little madam, stirring up ttrouble.
I wouldn't go anywhere near her, mate.
You've had your fingers bitten more than once,
what will it take to convince you, this aint going anywhere where you want to go, & never will!
Find someone else, who is honest, affectionate and NICE!
Someone capable of having a giggle & showing affection.
OK?
Live & learn! Don't make the same mistakes!
2007-03-05 19:41:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop harrassing her - it may be hard but ignore her, don't talk to her so that she can forget about you - cos she's mad at you at the minute - in time, if you act responsibly she may learn to respect this and may give you a second chance.
2007-03-05 09:25:35 · answer #5 · answered by bertram baines 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it's too late to repair it. By you continuing to email her or trying to talk to her you are making it worse. just leave it alone and move on.
2007-03-05 09:29:15 · answer #6 · answered by benjiandremy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out what LIFE is really all about..
2007-03-05 09:50:58 · answer #7 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over those peeps and and tell her that you are so sorry and if she dont forgive you she is a............... so just apologize and do whatever you want to
2007-03-05 09:25:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over her and find someone else
2007-03-05 09:23:30 · answer #9 · answered by Mary O 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave her alone you crazy stalker...
2007-03-05 09:22:40 · answer #10 · answered by Tacyella 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋