My friend and I haven't talked for about 17 days and just yesterday morning, she e-mailed me saying "hey, havent talked to you for a long time, hope everything is well" She was being really mean to me on valentines day so I got sick of it. on my bday, she emailed me saying happy bday and i told her "u2" because we have the same bday. That's the last thing I wrote to her. Now, I just got that e-mail and I don't know what to write to her. She is clueless and doesnt think she did anything wrong. Should I e-mail her and what should I say?
2007-03-05 09:14:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well, aren't we all just dramatic...that is except her. You're passionate, emotional and a good friend, and she seems to be not passionate, not emotional, and as for being a good friend? Debatable. Either she is, as you say, clueless, or she really doesn't value your friendship. Think hard: Is there any reason for her not to like you? Are you in any way a lower status than her? If the answer to these are even a shakey yes, you need to rethink whether she's purposely hanging this friendship by a tight thread. If not, then, yeah, maybe she is clueless, and needs an e-mail saying, you know, "We should hang out," somthing to that effect. Don't accuse her of anything, and put in a little more work to give you guys a higher quality friendship. If she doesnt return the favour, then chill with other people, because it isnt worth it.
2007-03-05 09:26:28 · answer #1 · answered by Cloudyheartgurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok i would just email her and tell her like how she was mean to you or any thing that she accidentely upset you about but in a calm tone becasue some times people take those things really bad but you should not waste time fighting with her when you could just talk and be good friends again
hope this works!!
2007-03-05 10:15:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her that ya'll should get over yourselves. Because it's a waste of time to fight. You and your friend know that you don't have all the time in the world, so spend the time you do have together and not apart.
2007-03-05 09:20:02 · answer #3 · answered by Kai-Kai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
17 days isnt that bad talk about everything that has happend in thoughs 17 days
2007-03-05 09:20:28 · answer #4 · answered by sara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her what happened and how you felt. maybe she doenst know she was being like that to you. talk everything out and then see what happens.
2007-03-05 09:42:28 · answer #5 · answered by whoahcalleex0 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would email her back and tell her exactly how you feel about the situation
2007-03-05 10:58:07 · answer #6 · answered by danity0414 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should be honest with her and tell her how you feel if you want to keep a good friendship.
2007-03-05 09:21:18 · answer #7 · answered by Emily 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go with the flow
2007-03-05 09:18:02 · answer #8 · answered by Pistonsfan101 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋