One day my best friend just said "i hate you" dont talk to me ever again, she said that she has forgiven me too many times and that i am a high matenience friend that no one deserves. I loved her like a sister, how do you go on, how do you deal with it, i cant just ignore her, we go to the same clubs, and classes. please help!
2007-03-05 08:54:51 · 7 answers · asked by bunnies6499 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
First and for most....what did you do? First : figure out what you're doing wrong and fix it.... If you keep making the same mistakes nothing changes.....Then once you've made the changes and achieved some balance ask for forgiveness.....given enough time you friend may forgive you, but maybe not.... If you happen to see her at whatever club you happen to be as be nice and polite. Don't make a big deal out of anything in public....mending your friendship may take awhile...but the key is to respect her wishes... look to yourself to find the answers to why the friendship ended...change the problems within your self and others will see....
2007-03-05 10:19:34 · answer #1 · answered by Odyssey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe thwere is a way to rescue yor friendship... Do you know what you have done wrong? Maybe you can apologize and ask her to be friends again. I mean being "best" friends does ean something. She wasn'T your best friend for nothing and you weren'T hers for nothing...
But if there is no way to be friends again then you just have to try to get over her. Just how you try to get over a boyfriend...
Look for other friends, go out with them, maybe visit some other clubs. That will be easy. In the classes you just keep calm and concentrate at the teacher.
You do not need to ignore her. Just try to begin a new life without
her as your best friend.
2007-03-05 09:06:37 · answer #2 · answered by mc_fly_11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, know that unforeseen occurrences befall us all. From a religious aspect, read certain scriptures like John 5:28, 29 and Rev. 21: 3,4 that talk about a resurrection, Jehovah's way of restoring what was lost. From a human standpoint, join a group that deals with the loss of loved ones/best friends. If none of that works, take your left hand, put on your right side, take your right hand, put it on your left side and squeeze; that's me hugging you. *smiles n winks*
2007-03-05 09:23:52 · answer #3 · answered by mrdazzle1969 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay so i recently had to take a step back from a best friend myself. she ended up being a liar and i just can't handle that. i would suggest 2 things to you. take the reasons she gave and consider them. perhaps she's right and you should attempt to improve yourself. don't try to spite her it'll only get worse. give her time and space but let her know you still value the friendship. alot of times there are so many more things adding to the problem that you can't control. be willing to change, accept, compromise and forgive. that's real friendship.
2007-03-05 09:22:16 · answer #4 · answered by h2oliquids 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, i am sorry for your loss of friendship. try to move on, though i know it is hard. see if she seams lonely now or if she is still a scocial butterfly. if she is lonely, then you might try and talk to her alone once more. but, if she is already out there fluttering her wings, then try to cope and make new FrIeNdS!!!! ;-)
GOOD LUCK!!!
2007-03-05 09:09:46 · answer #5 · answered by 814558 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At least she is forward in telling you she doesnt like you. You will find a true friend and forget her soon enough.lol
2007-03-05 09:28:55 · answer #6 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ALL YOU GOTTA DO IS GO HAVE SEX WITH WHOEVER THAT PERSON WAS DATING.AND YOU`LL FEEL SO MUCH BETTER KNOWING THAT YOU ARE UP UNDER SOMEONE THAT WAS CLOSE TO YOUR FRIEND
2007-03-05 10:11:29 · answer #7 · answered by breszille 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋