i dont have any social life,i dont have any friends outside school, and i hate the area im living in...all i do really is just stay in my house....i dont want to be like this forever.....how do i change my situation?
2007-03-05 08:46:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Pick up a hobby that involves other people. I used to play drums and that brought me into contact with other like minded people. There is music, art, writing (basically anything creative), science, andything you can think of. Do a search for events in your area and plan to go to some. That gives you a ready made social group and can help you to meet and interact with other people as well.
2007-03-05 09:11:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first get out of the house,you must take an active part in your own life.find something that intrest you which means try new things you might find someting you like.roller skating,tennis.soccer,golf,bowling.maybe helping out at a soup kitchen or a homeless shelter.or visiting an elderly person in a nursing home or retirement home.there are many things to do you are wasting your time sitting around we all feel this way sometimes but life is for living-get on with it,good luck.
2007-03-05 16:56:18 · answer #2 · answered by dixie58 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are alot of after school programs that you can maybe look into,such as the boys & girls club and the WMCA or WYCA,which ever is appropriate for you. You could get a part time job,or look into volunteer work.You would be amazed to see how any of these things can change your life, and you'll meet lots of people.
2007-03-05 17:05:35 · answer #3 · answered by happyfingers1@verizon.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when i m in this age group my life also s u c k s like that...
i m also not able to understand why im not able to have a social life inspite of tryin too hard to get it .......
but from my experience during the mid of the teenages ...some teens go under a shell n doesent wanna others to interfare in their world .....they doesent want others to be in their world nor want to be in others world ....they r in some other state of mind .....considering that the others r doing just some nonsense kind of stuff that is not at all ......going to work out for me .....
this kind of mentality is really harmful yaar ....come out of this pursue something that really interest u .....go out n try to socialize with the ppl who really have something common with u.......
but in spite of all this if u doesent wanna indulge in all this n u r a home bird than go on n try to help ur mum dad ...or may be take a puppy home ......so that u can play for him n u can easily get away with other social evil that exist in ur locality .......
2007-03-06 00:55:03 · answer #4 · answered by dash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get ur head out of the dirt and be social, invite some friends from school over! people will like u outside of school if thats what ur scared of.. =]
2007-03-05 16:51:55 · answer #5 · answered by love to help! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was kindov like that before but then i started hanging otu with those friends from school....outside of school.....you can have a social life with them too.... and get out find new people....on the city bus if you take one to go to school and back....i do and made tons of friends there.....
2007-03-05 16:52:12 · answer #6 · answered by nascarfan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what area do you live in? i assume its not a city but if it is, your oppurtunities for socializing are infinite! even if you live in bum-***, you can fix this. go see local bands at the vfw, join some kinda sport/club/group. it will happen pretty easily if you take the pressure off yourself!!
2007-03-05 16:54:47 · answer #7 · answered by j. deo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pick a sport like soccer and start banging the ball against the wall
2007-03-05 16:53:37 · answer #8 · answered by Mayank D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how about geting in a sport ,how about babysitting meeting people that u live around
2007-03-05 17:23:04 · answer #9 · answered by crystal w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pray
2007-03-05 16:49:45 · answer #10 · answered by CRY$T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋