Was reading another question ('Are you afraid to open your heart?') when I realised the responses were similar. Made me wonder whether it's just the cynical that answer that sort of question or whether there's a lot of people with walled up hearts??
(Incidently, I'm a cynic!)
2007-03-05 08:41:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Only those who have been hurt in the past. If you are one of them, then you are not ready to move into a new relationship until you can get past this stage. A new relationship has nothing to do with what has happened in your past and should not be penalized for someone else who has broke your heart.
2007-03-05 08:48:48 · answer #1 · answered by devilgal031948 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many people build walls around their hearts just as many people leave their hearts open. You don't have to cynical to think feel.....but I'm one to talk right? Anyway, the feel of hurt is not a comfortable feeling but it is an inevitable feeling that is needed in life to mature oneself. But if you keep your heart contained for too long, you're going to miss the one who should be there.
2007-03-05 09:02:00 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Cynical 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For people who want a serioys relationship building a wall around their heart is more than neccsesary. Thw orld can be a cruel place and it can bombard us with surprises. U'll be surprised to see how vunerable we can be to love. A relationship which as been carefully thoughtof; for example the concept of a walled heart can make the hurt which may be to come more bearable. So in conclusion you find out that people who are serious about their relationship mostly protect themselves and it takes another special person to get over the wall.
2007-03-05 09:00:50 · answer #3 · answered by Michael A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell yeah, I've opened my heart twice, first time it was trampled on, the second it was ripped out, had petrol poured all over it and torched. I make no excuses for being a heartless be-atch, in fact I'm proud of it now because it means nobody can hurt me any more. I only have exceptions for my kids, feck everyone else.
Sad but true....
2007-03-05 08:57:58 · answer #4 · answered by keiraebony 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I put big a wall around my heart because I was sick of being hurt, but you have to learn to trust again and slowly the wall comes down.
It has for me I have met the most wonderful Man and he has turned my life and faith in human nature around
2007-03-05 08:46:43 · answer #5 · answered by pixie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2015-01-25 23:52:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, I've been a mason for years. I've made walls of stone, brick, cinder blocks, etc., but never around my heart. I had oper-heart surgery a few years ago - - - - there were no walls.
2007-03-05 08:47:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. People hurt you if you open up to them. They either betray you or trample all over your feelings. Big walls around this heart...
2007-03-05 08:50:03 · answer #8 · answered by happy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nah i cant be bothered building a wall. i have a box that i can climb in and a very strong padlock for which i have the key and i ate it.
2007-03-05 08:44:25 · answer #9 · answered by bex 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
a very strong brick wall, which will soon have to be knocked down and hopefully not rebuilt!!
2007-03-05 08:52:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋