me and this girl have been bff since we were newborn babies and we still are friends but is it natural that sometimes we get in fights and get on eachother's nerves? and is it normal that i kind of like this other girl more then her?i am only twelve years old... is that natural at my age?do you think we will be friends for the rest of our lives?i feel alot of the time she likes other people better then me but its the same with me i like other people better then her sometimes. but sometimes she doesn't like my friends and other times she kind of steals them away from me! sometimes i feel she likes the people i hate more then me!!!HELP PLEASE!!!!!
2007-03-05 08:32:15 · 12 answers · asked by angel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
it's very natural for you to feel the way you do.this feeling comes because you like her so much that you get intimidated when you see her with some other girl.it means there is a speical place in your heart for her.you tend to prefer other people because you think she dosent like you as much as you like her.remember you have seen her at her best and worst while i think you only see the good side of this people you prefer and assume they are better-this is also normal even for your age.to be friends for the rest of your life,try telling her how much you like her and the things she does to upset you.assume she is your boy friend whom you love so much, wont you do all you can to keep him?set out to keep this friend of yours and she will be all yours.
2007-03-05 08:54:33 · answer #1 · answered by tosin a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
throughout your life you will have friends come and go. Friends you thought were always going to be around. the two of you are growing and have new interests, sometimes the same, sometimes different, and that is ok. This is completley normal, not only for your age, but for every age! I have childhood friends that I was inseperatable with from the age of birth to 12-13 and then we just grew apart. I still to this day think about them from time to time and wonder how they are doing and I'm sure they do the same for me. Life just leads people in different directions sometimes. That doesn't mean that you don't love each other or that you will NEVER be friends again. This just means you are growing and changing and experiencing new things. I have friends that I was very close with in high school that I never talk to anymore, but often think about. I have friends that I had in college that i think about but rarely see. I have friends that I have met through church that I have been very close to but i haven't seen in awhile. I still pick up the phone every now and then and call these people. I think that God puts people in our life to teach us and for us to teach at different times in our lives. He always gives us what we need when we need it. It is completely normal for you and your friend to fight or get on each other's nerves!!! I love my children to death but they still get on my nerves....lol! Stop worrying so much about if you like someone more than you like her or if she likes someone more than she likes you. What matters is that you still like each other. Don't be jealous if she gets a new friend. be happy for her. She is growing and becoming a young lady just like you are. Good luck and go out there and make lots of friends (the both of you)
2007-03-05 16:49:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though you've been friends for so long, things change as you grow up. I've gone through the same types of things but when I started high school I found new people and don't really talk to the old ones anymore. And so what if you have other friends she should care and it should matter what she thinks about the people you hang out with. It's your choice not hers and as long as you're happy that's all that matters
2007-03-05 16:37:56 · answer #3 · answered by Mandy-Lu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's natural.You both are growing up and figuring out who you are and what you want.
I knew this girl and we had been friends since pre-school and as we got into H.S. we didn't hang out as much and we weren't as close but we are still friends.If she ever needed me I would be there.And when we do run into each other it's like old times.
Just talk with her about the other friends and if you really want to be friends for the rest of your lives you will need to work at making it stay like that. It's just like any other relationship.
2007-03-05 16:41:40 · answer #4 · answered by bjustnape 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is prefectly normal that you are fighting sometimes. one of my best friends and i had a lot of fights for a while but we got over it. it is ok that you like other people more because best friends do change and sometimes you have more than one best friend. it is also really impossile to tell if you will be friends forever, as it is with any of your friends because you never know what will happen in the future. as for her liking people you hate, that is perfectly normal it happens to me all of the time. so i wouldnt worry and i would give it time and see what happens
2007-03-05 16:53:12 · answer #5 · answered by Roni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it is ok, if you like other peole better than her. You don'T have to stay best friends with her for all your life! I mean you can if you want to, but if you do not like her that much any more, you should find another best friend. Because it wouldn't be nice just to stay best friends with her becuase you know her that long....
And if she also does like other people better than you then there is no problem. SHe won't be sad if you have another best friend, because she could get another best friend, too.
And that all doesn'T mean you cannot stay friends. It just means that you can have other friends!
2007-03-05 16:39:42 · answer #6 · answered by mc_fly_11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i understand how u feel. relax. maybe a little time away from each other will be healthy for u're relationship. i spent a whole summer away from my friend and when summer ended, we were better friends than ever.
2007-03-05 16:48:58 · answer #7 · answered by unnir 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is very normal for this to take place for your age.It goes along with growing-up, But you will understand more as you grow
2007-03-05 16:39:34 · answer #8 · answered by dyersburgdelilah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thank god its only "sometimes" and not all the time!
2007-03-05 16:37:55 · answer #9 · answered by Java Chip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is.me and my friend have been friend from the gecko too!but we fight and then next day we are friends again.
2007-03-05 16:38:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋