I have this friend who back stabbed me long ago, and now we're not that close anymore. I'm nice to her and everything cause I'm not like her. Well, I became friends with this guy I didn't know was her crush, and now we're best friends. We tell each other everything and hang out and stuff. She found out and now she talks to me, and asks me stuff about him, and tell me to give him messages. I asks my new best friend what should I do and he told me he didn't want her to know anything about him because she is weird and she does rituals about him and stuff. She has his name every where in her room, and he said that he didn't like her cause she doesn't treat people nicely. So should I become her friend again or should I just stay like I am and keep my distance from her?
2007-03-05 08:25:14 · 12 answers · asked by Ash C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You must stay like you are...she didn't come close you kept up the good manners...so now that you have her guy...she wants to be friends???
You must stay nice, but to yourself...tell her, if she wants anything to do with him, she must go to him and you will see how she will change toward you...as she will not want anything to do with you again...she is a user....
2007-03-13 07:27:38 · answer #1 · answered by Ariana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should keep your distance. If she really is that mean, there is no use in hanging out with her in the first place...and if she still talks to you about your friend, just treat her the way she would treat you and she might understand how mean she really is for using you.
2007-03-05 08:32:31 · answer #2 · answered by Jess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say it is ur choice. the only reason she wants to be friends with u is because she likes the guy u r best friends with. if he doesn't want u to tell her anything about him then i say don't break promises that u make to Ur real friends. if he is that hot i say go out with him if not then just be really good friends no matter what or who tries to come between u 2. i hope it works out alright with the 2 of u and if i were u i tell ur old friend to get lost and don't come around u again or u will file harassment charges on her.
2007-03-05 08:36:00 · answer #3 · answered by Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are on the right path. Be nice and polite but keep your distance from her. When she asks you about your friend tell her that you don't want to talk about friends when they are not present.
2007-03-13 06:11:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anna W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should keep your distance from her, your guy friend seems sincere and the girl seems like she's using you and you don't deserve that. Ask yourself which friendship means more.
2007-03-05 08:29:31 · answer #5 · answered by DanCa101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like that ex friend of yours is using you. She sounds like a potential stalker -- lose her before she gets you involved in something (like tell the guy you said XYZ about him and make up some crap). She sounds like a lose cannon, lose her and fast.
2007-03-05 08:31:30 · answer #6 · answered by billiedalley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard when that happens but I think you should just leave everything as it is at the moment and do what you like!
2007-03-05 08:30:14 · answer #7 · answered by Lisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your distance... Someone who uses you is just a dramatic mess.
2007-03-13 08:48:20 · answer #8 · answered by GorgeousGal10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl don't tell her anything she sounds trifling, trust your own feelings.She sounds like she is up to no good.She's obsessed with your man, and your life.It is not her business about him.She needs to get her own man.Take care
2007-03-13 02:03:26 · answer #9 · answered by inmandarleen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea because i have a friend just like that but be care full who you call your friend
2007-03-05 08:29:11 · answer #10 · answered by PRECIOUS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋