I like this guy but I'm not sure if he likes me, my friend likes him too but she's naturally flirtatious and she doesn't like half the guys who like her. I want to be more comfortable around him because most of the time when a guy likes me it's because I'm being myself but I get so nervous around him please I need help, tell me how to talk to someone who makes my breath unsteady! please?
2007-03-05 08:09:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Wow it sounds like you really like him. Well i guess the best anwser would be to talk to him about that. But being a guy, i don't do that. If i like a girl i look for signals, just to be safe. I don't like to open myself up and have no one walk in. So look for some signals. How does he look at you? Does he smile when he talks to you, how often do you speak, how close is he to you when you just hangin out, does he open himself? All these questions should give you an idea what to look for. IF he makes opens up to you, then that could be a good indication on how he feels about you. IF all else fails, just take a chance and make the first move. Go and get what's yours.
2007-03-11 10:19:55 · answer #1 · answered by MR. B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys like girls who they can hang out with and cuddle wiht. So maybe you could go to a movie or somethng and put your head on his shoulder or hold his hand, jsut make the move becasue sometimes boys dont want to amke the move so they wont have to be blamed for it but thats what you have to do sit next to him tell him u love him you ahve to be nice as possilbe and try to be funny but not to funny and dont make him feel bad make him the center of attention not you remember not u HIM if he says oh im goin play football b like where ect etc etc but dotn say yea im going shopping and call him nicknames like cupcake or hun and he will proabably call you the same back. GOOD LUCK!
2007-03-05 16:16:45 · answer #2 · answered by Nickels6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sure are anxious, lol. When you talk to him just pretend that you really don't like him for more than a friend. That way you can be more comfortable around him and he will get to know you allot better. Good luck : )
2007-03-05 16:14:23 · answer #3 · answered by . 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok.
I know when I am trying to talk to someone who make my breath unsteady, I just take a deep breath and try to say something
If you cant talk to them face to face, them email them, send them a letter, write a note or even talk to them on the phone.
Trust I know what to do!
2007-03-05 16:16:31 · answer #4 · answered by DT 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i so have felt this way be for its hard but keep talkin to him or he will think ur mad at him and if u like him u dont want that...it will get easier......i fell in love w/someone and when i found out that the person liked me.....i had no idea what to say....but i got confortable w/that person cause i didnt want them to think i was mad....it will get easier....
2007-03-05 18:07:17 · answer #5 · answered by BOBO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl go to him gansta be like whats good wit you i be seeing you around u feel me and i want to no wats good with you or this always work get one of your other friends to go to him and talk to him for you but it is better to do it yourself because it shows that you are not that shy and its ok that you really are but dont show it you tell him what it is
2007-03-05 16:15:32 · answer #6 · answered by God's Child 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋