I am wanting to contact my best friend who had died in a car accident almost 7 months ago..?

Question

Hello,
I am wanting to contact my best friend & first true love, Travis, on the "othr side". He had passed away almost 7 months ago and I cant stop thinking about him, dreaming about him, and I most definetly cannot let go. I want him to know how much he meant and still means to me and how much I love him, since I never got to tell him. I was wondering if I could recieve some help preferably from someone who has a lot of experience with the paranormal and who would do this as a favor, or for free, for me. I am a mother, and I really can't afford to pay for this right now. I am just in desperate need of contacting him, I miss him so very much. I really need someone's help. If I could be pointed in the right direction or if someone could reply with help I would really appreciate it. I am nervous to use the Ouija board, as I have no one to play with me (my husband is n paranoid of it and we didn't exactly have a good experience with the board in the past), so I need some help. Thanks..

I should have known I was going to get some stupid answers to this question...but I am already in enough pain as it is. Are jokes at my question TRULY neccesary?? I am just trying to find a way to talk to him, yes I believe in the afterlife, and yes I believe that communication between the spirit world and the human physical world is very possible. So with that being said, thank you to the ones who actually help with answering my question.

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You don't even realize how much sense you made to me with your post! You spoke of the red dress, and the prom...it was actually the formal before the prom, and I did dance with him and was so happy to!! When you spoke of the small silver thing in his hand..he gave me a silver ring that he had for a long time, and he gave it to me just because, not for any particular reason...When you talk about the smell, I completely understand that too..now that I am thinking about it. I know there is a smell, I believe it smells something like cigarettes and gum, but I'm not quite sure if I have it just right. I know there is a certain scent I associate with him and haven't exactly pinpointed it yet. Please e-mail me if you can: [e-mail] I would really like to speak with you further..you have helped me so much. Thank you!!!

Answer 1

first, i am so sorry for your loss. i can tell how special he was by your words.
2nd: DO NOT use the ouija board unless you know what you are doing, you can open a portal and let in the WRONG spirits...
3rd: i recommend you read this book first to help you heal. go to half.com and find it cheap.
"THE SEANCE" healing messages from beyond by SUZANE NORTHROP
she is by far the best medium in north america.
met her personally after my mom died.truly amazing. she may have a website.....

now, i do help police and do contact spirits also.....
i will try to get thru for you......know this: when you dream of someone who has passed, and THEY TALK to you.....it is NOT a dream ..it truly is them.......so listen carefully to their words.
** he has been trying to let you know he is with you in spirit..... and you sensed it, stronger when he first passed. there is certain smell you connect with him.....when you smell it, you will know he IS THERE with you.
i sense his death was not quick...there was lots of pain associated with it......but he is ok now.
(* i could tell you he misses you, which he does, and that he knows you care etc.....but that is too vague.....) i am trying to get him to tell me something that will def. let you know it is HIM........he is telling me about your high school prom......you were dancing together...and something about a red dress?? he is a shy spirit, gentle in soul, tall and thin....
he loves you too.......he is showing me something in his hand, but i cant quite make it out.....it is small and silver...he says he gave it to you long time ago...and you still save it but may have forgotten about it???
he says to get out his picture and just talk to him.....sit quietly by yourself at night......and then just LISTEN......close your eyes and you will hear a sweet whisper.....maybe not the first time, but you will.......
i hope i have helped and am serious.

god bless.......

Answer 2

I am a researcher on paranormality and will, as you deserve, a straight answer. It is proved by instrumental communication spirits, inteligent entities DO survive material death. I have done ITC sessions till exhaustion, and gor taped voices most of the time. Clear, inteligent voices. But also, and often, brute, rude voices. It is like Internet, would you believe ANYTHING that is writen? Would you open the door to ANYONE who knocks? Any spiritual contact delivers the same danger. Obsession. By reading your desperate message, it is clear you are one step away from obsession. If you fear incarnated jokes, you should really chill about intervention of bad personalities. Of course, there are ways to avoid them. Each person (of course you too) has a "guardian angel", that is, a spiritual friend, often a friend from previous lives, who, in a certain proportion, act as a barrier against invaders. AVOID Ouija boards. It is an open door to predators. Read whatever is available about instrumental transcommunication and, whenever you feel ready (that is, calm, balanced), try it yourself with a small tape recorder. The idea is ask something then let the entity answer. Can you be sure the voice belongs to the loved one? Sorry, no. Only clairvoyants can answer this, and even they can be fooled. Your first step is try to get professional help. I mean, a psychologist. In Brazil (where I live) this could be provided by medicare. I don't know the system in US. But believe me, it is clear you need to calm down, to ease the suffering. Maybe reading material by Prof. Brian Weiss (many books available) you can find some peace of mind. Again, do not try contacts under this condition. Good luck!

Answer 3

I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Chances are that if you are dreaming of him then you and him are already communicating in dreams. You may not remember consciously, but during dreams is when most people hook up with their loved ones on the "other side". You do know that he can hear you when you talk to him, right? It is quite possible that he even sends you signs that he is around, but you just may mistake them for everyday occurances (ex: birds singing, coins on the floor, etc). Some advise would to be to read some books by Sylvia Browne. She has a lot of books that talk about loved ones on the other side. It might make coping a little easier for you. Those books helped me when my uncle passed. Good luck to you!

Answer 4

You are obviously in a lot of pain. Why don't you write a letter to your deceased friend and express all the things you are feeling. This is a great exercise I learned through counseling. You can also have someone role play with you. Have them sit in a chair across from you and you say all the things you are feeling to the person as if it was Travis. Both of these exercises are very helpful in releasing someone who you never got to say goodbye to. I did this when my father died and I could not be there to say good bye to him. Don't try to contact a dead person, it will just mess you up even more.

Answer 5

I know this isn't what you want to hear, but if your friend died some time ago, he's out of the contacting business.
Anyone who tells you that the dead can be contacted is a fake. Mediums, fortune tellers, and psysics are all in it for the buck. They'll tell you anything to get your money, but deliver nothing but guesses.
If any of those fakes were real, there would be no such thing as lottos. The psychics would win every time. It's all B.S.

Answer 6

What you want to do is very very simple thing.

One medium required and and then you can contact the departed soul.

It is cheap too in Indain currency it will not cost you more than one US Doller and i am not joking. It is true.

But what will you get after this ? The departed soul is on its natural course of journey with friends and relatives ? Would you like to bring back to earth just to show how much you are missing the soul ? Is;t is selfishness.

Please remeber it is equally unpleasant to recall the departed soul and unless and untill something which can not be adressed with out the departed soul it is recommended not to cal them back.

They can not come to this planet ( only contacted) you can not go to their world. So why to troblem them. Let them chart their own way.

You pain will not subsidise with the one or two talks.

My sincere requst to you is plese for the departed soul's sake do n ot feel bad and they all have left for further jouneys. You will meet them some where when the time will come so please do not give them more pain

i am again telling you it is very very simple but please please please do not attempt it.

Answer 7

I'm sorry for your loss, it is never easy losing someone you care about. Unfortunately it is impossible to talk with the dead, all these psychics you see on tv and whatnot are just scam artists looking to profit on gullible people in mourning. If you really want to "talk" with him, just pray, he'll hear you, even if you don't hear anything back. So long as you believe in the power of prayer, he'll hear you...

Answer 8

From what I understand about that sort of thing, he already knew what he meant to you. But I guess you desperately need to know that he knew? That is pretty selfish. There are healthier ways to grieve. Let him rest in peace - if you really did love him.

Answer 9

Go on Montel Williams talk show. He airs with Sylvia Brown every Wednesday.

I am sorry for your loss.

Answer 10

You cant talk to dead people. Ouija boards are no more than a piece of cardboard and plastic. Sorry.