Lately I have been getting more and more viruses, so I decided to check out why. When I wnet under my boyfriends account I found a ton of infected child porn files. I have no problem with him looking at porn so long as it is girls of legal age, but wht I found really bothered me. He has always made comments about how he like younger girls, but I never imagined that he meant little girls nder 18. I want to talk to him about it but I really don't know what to say. He is really good with kids and before I found this I would have never thought that he would even look at a site like this.
This is the man I plan on marrying and jus thte thought of having a child with him really is bothering me right now. It is one thing to even look at these website but how can I be sure that he wouldn't do that to to our child or someone elses. The fact that he even looks at it grosses me out! I want him to stop or I don't think I could ever marry him knowing htis. Any advice??
2007-03-05 07:45:24 · 7 answers · asked by Brown Eyed Girl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
how about you rethink the whole marrage thing, especially if you plan to have kids. If he looks at little girls in a sexual manner he is sick! I don't care who he is and how long you've been with him.. think about this how many times has he made love to you and imagined your one of those little girls in his head? you need to get as far away from him as possible.. not to mention he's putting you in danger of the law? do you not know how many people get arrested each year for downloading juvinile porn! He's a sick bastard and tell him i said so!
2007-03-05 09:39:34 · answer #1 · answered by weary minded 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can only imagine how this is breaking your heart. DO NOT be niave. Anyone looking at child pronography has a serious issue that you cannot solve, will not go away, and needs immediate psychiatric attention. And, honestly, you need to call the police. If those sites get busted, it's all on you girlfriend. It's your computer. Please have the courage to leave and do the right thing. Those are children. And you are responsible for looking out for them first.
2007-03-05 16:02:29 · answer #2 · answered by donewiththismess 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Confront him about it immediately and make the following demands. He needs to admit to you that he has a problem and will seek help from a professional immediately, or else its over between you and him. It might be to late anyway, for I don't know how you could ever trust him around even his own children, but I wish you the best of luck. Maybe this was God's way of showing you that this man is not the one for you.
2007-03-05 16:13:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This man is a pedophile. He is good with children because he is attracted to them. It's similar to courting a woman that he would wish to have sex with. He needs serious help. Do not marry this man. Every convicted pedophile that I have seen interviewed says that the urges, the attraction never goes away. The pedophiles say that they can't be cured.
Run. Run, right now!!
2007-03-05 16:07:09 · answer #4 · answered by friendlyadvice 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to get away from this guy. No matter how great he may seem, he is obviously sick and has some serious issues.
2007-03-05 16:02:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Run, now while you can. Hurry and Fast
2007-03-05 16:01:03 · answer #6 · answered by Amanda 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
tell him excatly wut u said during that last part. or better yet everything u said above
2007-03-05 16:11:42 · answer #7 · answered by spykz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋