Or should I only look to make friends with ugly women only.
Or do looks even matter. I know its whats on the inside that counts. Right?
2007-03-05 07:36:49 · 17 answers · asked by Bob B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The problem is, If this girl approached you, then she is probably a freak and will try to get you in the sac regardless if you are married or not.
Beware, even the women do not trust each other - they know their true nature.
2007-03-05 07:59:27 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It shouldn't matter. But you should consider if you want to be friends with her because you find her attractive. You should be sure that you don't like her 'that' way. Your wife, if she's anything like me, won't like you being so friendly with someone you find so good looking, you'll only spark jealousy in her. Do think about it if you're wife were to get chummy with a totally hot guy. Would you think it's the inside that counts?
2007-03-05 07:43:44 · answer #2 · answered by jade 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are NOT sure you can remain just friends or you would not be asking. Unfortunately in today's society looks are important...but be warned even unattractive women..once you become friends and get to know them CAN become attractive to you because you LIKE whats on the inside. So if you THINK YOU may have a problem staying faithful..looks of a female friend are the least of your problems.
2007-03-05 07:42:41 · answer #3 · answered by healthynow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have as many friends as you want. It shouldn't matter that they are male or female or old or young or pretty or not.
If you are married, as I am, I am not looking to cheat on my wife. If I happen to meet someone and we have a lot in common I think I have a new friend, not "I have a new lover".
2007-03-05 08:20:41 · answer #4 · answered by jw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can. It's all in the mind. I have one. She's an ex girlfriend, and no, I haven't had it off with her since I got married. As long as you are passed the school boy mentality that you can only be friends with females you want to sleep with, there's no problem.
If you're not a cheater, what does looks have to do with it?
If it worries you, then you need to get your priorities straight.
If it worries your wife, you need to work on trust issues.
cheers :-)
2007-03-05 07:43:14 · answer #5 · answered by Captain Jack ® 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should not have women friends. It's ok, to have acquaintences such as co-workers, etc.. but there is absolutely no reason to have a one on one friendship with another woman if you're married, where you would go out to lunch with this person alone, go to their house alone, etc.... In fact even frienship trust connections can undermines the relationship. Having male friends is much better and more respectful to yoru parnter.
2007-03-05 07:40:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
You shouldnt go out looking to make friends with any woman. Would you like your wife to be best buddies with another male? You know that only leads to trouble.
2007-03-05 07:50:49 · answer #7 · answered by Kari R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, it does not matter if the girl is ugly or not as long as you do something wrong. If you have sex with a friend who is uglier than the ugliest woman whore in the world, then it's wrong.
friends is just friends, no matter if he/she is beautiful or not!
2007-03-05 21:40:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just talk to her about her intentions and then tell your wife you made a friend that day and see how she reacts.
Not all women are so insecure that their husband can't have a female co-working friend. So long as that is your only motive (yourself) and hers as well.
2007-03-05 07:43:05 · answer #9 · answered by sassinya 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are right what is on the inside counts looks do not matter it is what you do to the ladies if you want a pretty lady just make her feel nice and safe with you.
2007-03-05 07:42:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋