If you have had a pregnant wife or girl friend, di dyour attraction to her change? I am 13 week pregnant right now, but my husband is currently deployed and won't even see me till I am past 20 weeks. I am concerned that he will no longer find me attractive.
2007-03-05 07:33:53 · 23 answers · asked by I love sushi 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2007-03-05 07:35:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 5⤋
To any real man that loves her woman, the fact that she is pregnant should make her sexier to his eyes, because she is carrying a baby (or more than one…) that are the result of the two of them making love (or from some wild sex… LOL).
My wife and I haven’t had any children yet, but we are going to try for a baby soon after she finishes some medications the doctor gave her. I Personally can not wait to get her pregnant. Both of us have been thinking about having a baby for a while but had hold it back because of financial reasons. Now we are ready!
I have pictured in my mind my wife with a belly, and to be honest, I think is very sexy, and I would love to have sex with her while she has her belly. Of course, we have to be careful with the baby, but there are many positions that are good for women while pregnant, and we plan to do each one of them (already talked about it too!).
In fact, I think I am going to take pictures of her belly every week or so and we can later do an album for the baby and start it with her pics. She loves to do scrapbooks, so I know she wants to do it.
Of course, everybody is different, and there will always be some guys who do not find a pregnant woman attractive. But in any case, as I said, if your husband is a good man and he loves you, he will love that baby just as much or more, and he will be so happy, that I’m sure his last worry is going to be if you look “fat” or not.
Good luck, and congratulation for the baby.
PS. Why don’t you send him some pics of your belly so he can get used to it and also see his future child… kinda sorta.. hehe
2007-03-05 08:37:38 · answer #2 · answered by Dan D 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, they are! and he will, believe me, i was deployed to and pregnant or not here he comes, hes been away for awhile and misses you deeply im sure, most men find that there pregnant wives are even more beautiful than ever, and if hes a good man, which i hope he is, then hell be happy just to see the miracle taking place and be proud as heck that hes going to be a daddy
2007-03-05 07:42:00 · answer #3 · answered by sofmatty 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to say that I was less attracted to my wife when she was pregnant. It's not my fault! I didn't WANT to be less attracted to her, I just was. I still loved her and we still had sex sometimes, but I was glad when the pregnancy was over. Now our youngest is 9, and we don't have to worry about it anymore. Looking back, it wasn't even what I would call a problem. More like a small glitch.
2007-03-05 07:38:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
omg! I can totally relate. I just had a baby. My husband said thought I was beautiful when I was prego. I felt disgusting (i gained 65 pounds!), so that contirbitued to less confidence and subsequently less sex. Just remember, hormones can play a huge factor in how you feel about yourself. it is time limited, you'll be back to your own sexy self soon enough!
2007-03-05 07:46:02 · answer #5 · answered by G&L 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he loves you like he says he does then he will stll find you very attractive. Besides how could he not find you attractive when you are carrying his child? You have a miracle inside of you and regardless of what he thinks nothing is more sexy than that. You have nothing to worry about.
2007-03-05 07:38:10 · answer #6 · answered by ltwatkins77 4 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Oh yes. As long as th woman takes care of herself there is lots to explore. Break out the lotion, that helps her skin and he get's charged from all the touching and feeling.
..and once the milking starts..
2007-03-05 07:44:08 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maximum adult adult males discover their different halves very appealing for the time of being pregnant because of fact whats extra sexier than being the mummy to their newborn. Now regardless of if or not they discover different pregnant women persons appealing i can't answer yet i might think of there's slightly element there some female wearing a newborn
2016-10-17 08:19:19 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife's pregnancies didn't reduce my lust for her. Mostly it made her more reluctant to have sex because moving around was more difficult and tiring, and many positions are no longer comfortable.
I doubt he will find you unattractive, and I strongly doubt that he will not want to have sex with you.
2007-03-05 07:56:43 · answer #9 · answered by Martin Pedersen 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he loved you b/4 he left I'll assure you he'll love you when he gets home no matter how big you get. Plus you'll have that motherly glow about, hopefully he be there for the birth.
2007-03-05 07:41:39 · answer #10 · answered by walker9842 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Pregnant women are very sexy.
2007-03-05 07:41:34 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋