I was very curious about bi and crossed the line to see what it was like. It was not me, so I will never do it again. Just curious, what would you call someone like me?
Have any of you wives have husbands like me (that you know about)?
2007-03-05 07:28:02 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
PS: I only gave a bj and let him give me a bj
2007-03-05 07:38:26 · update #1
You call yourself someone that gave it a shot. If you didn't like it, then you are heterosexual and you dont even have to ever let anyone know about it. Some would say the opposite, but I believe that everyone is curious, but you tried and didn't want it to be that way, so Id say you are ahead of the curve. Dont worry about it, and if you feel wierd about it then just keep it to yourself. There's nothing wrong with you =)
2007-03-05 07:32:00 · answer #1 · answered by cvjade 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You tried it once. Big deal. If it wasn't for you, then your curiosity is ended. You were curious, you weren't bi, so you can't even be a "former bi". Formerly curious! That's it.
I experimented a few times in the past, and it really wasn't for me. Some aspects were fun, but I didn't get any feeling of completeness. It was more like, "this is a lot more fun with a woman." I'm happily married and love my wife of 8 months!
HOWEVER, did you try it while you were married? That would mean you cheated on your wife, and that would mean you were a cheater.
2007-03-05 07:35:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone like you is a very masculine man who is bi-curious and has tried it once ! Why are you worrying about categorisation ? Much more importantly, have you told your wife about this ? It is still an act of unfaithfulness. Would you use the excuse of being curious if you 'crossed the line' with another woman ?
2007-03-05 07:32:37 · answer #3 · answered by Lisa T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I was your wife and found out what you done , your a** would be out that door so fast you'd think superman picked up and flew away with you. That is sorry and that all you can call it, how would you like it if you wife messed around with another woman.
You did it once and buddy you'll do again , you liked it so, admit your just dying to get some other man in that bed. Your either is or you either ain't and mister you is.
2007-03-05 08:11:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you would be considered straight. Obviously you are not bi-curious because you are no longer curious and you are not gay or bi-sexual because you did not like it and wont be doing it again. Dont worry about it, you dont even have to tell anyone about it if you dont want to, its in the past.
2007-03-05 07:32:22 · answer #5 · answered by Kevin J 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
BiCurious
I would never cross that line myself.
My brother is by sexual though he seems more inclined to homosexuality then hetro- activities.
To me- sexuality is genetic, some people are very much hetro- or very homo- and then there are those that are just on the line and those are ByCurious or BiSexual.
Best of luck
2007-03-05 07:32:59 · answer #6 · answered by Harmon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't just lump yourself into a category like gay or straight. You are curious..period. I hope that you used protection? You would hate for something to come back and bite you in the ***..literally or figuratively.
2007-03-05 08:10:22 · answer #7 · answered by Lisa D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say bisexual...
Of course, you have to question why you were so curious. Why you tried it, whether or not you're certain you won't do it again...Also, I think there are many men out there that are 'bi-curious' or bisexual - most are afraid to admit it. Also, maybe you should discuss this with your wife?
2007-03-05 07:33:02 · answer #8 · answered by Kat 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You were curious, tried it and found it wasn't your cup of tea, so to speak....if you need a label, I guess you're still hetrosexual.
My guy has had bi-curious fantasies but, that's all they seem to be...in reality, I doubt he would "cross the line" (as you put it).
2007-03-05 07:35:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say he is a cheater. I could care less whether its with a man or a woman, what you did was wrong because you are married.
2007-03-05 07:35:43 · answer #10 · answered by I love sushi 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋