2007-03-05 07:23:54 · 11 answers · asked by just wondering 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am only slighly overweight and get reminded of this alot. My husband goes online to several sites and looks at far more heavier women than me
yet I have a stomach what drive do I have to work out
please help
married 25 years
2007-03-05 08:43:01 · update #1
First, what you think is more important than anyone's opinion.
Secondly, the issue is really about your husband looking at women on the internet, not what he thinks about your weight. Unless you are OK with him looking at other women on line, you should talk to him about it You don't mention how often he does or if he does more than look...but get comfortable with yourself first, then talk to your husband about is online activities.
2007-03-05 07:38:47 · answer #1 · answered by Le_Roche 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love your husband go on a diet , exercise and stay on this and you'll lose weight, Don't snack just vegetables and keep trying . The weight came on you from eating the wrong food are eating to much. Walk everyday, jog and if you get hungry eat a raw carrot, don't get disgusted and don't weigh everyday just once a week. You'll lose if you stick to a strict diet and exercise program. Best Of Luck To You.
2007-03-05 15:35:30 · answer #2 · answered by Nicki 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Overweight women are amazing and the most attractive of women. Your husband is a fool for looking at internet BBWs when he has one at home -- I would never do such a thing.
2007-03-05 15:26:55 · answer #3 · answered by hidehohum 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Dump him already. What - this has not occurred to you? Your husband cyber-cheats on you PLUS belittles you for the way you look? And you don't think you deserve better?
2007-03-05 15:30:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should eat a couple of cheeseburgers, of course! If this guy says you're overweight, that's obviously a compliment in his eyes. Take it as one.
2007-03-05 15:27:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him, who needs a man who looks at other women when he has one, he needs to show you more respect
2007-03-05 15:27:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe your husband likes to look at bigger women but doesn't want one..I have been told by men that they like one thing but want another...example: men like big boobs....likes to look at big boobs (fake), But they dont want their wives to get fake boob even though they like looking at them elsewhere.
2007-03-05 15:43:16 · answer #7 · answered by ERICKSMAMA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should put him on the side of the road.
2007-03-05 15:28:38 · answer #8 · answered by anna 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
tell him it's what's in the heart that matter's that he need's to quit putting you down
2007-03-05 15:27:49 · answer #9 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'd confront him about it.
2007-03-05 15:42:00 · answer #10 · answered by CLM 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋